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Contains: reading guide + 4 docs.

Thoughtful Social AI

Working thoughtfully with AI in group settings. A living bundle of principles and practice.

What is this?

Four documents on how to use AI thoughtfully in work with groups: facilitation, deliberation, neighborhood, team and community engagements. No tool reviews, no prompt tricks, but a working practice that protects people's voice when a language model sits in between.

The bundle is meant in two ways. You can read it if you do this work (or are thinking about it), and you can paste it whole or page by page into your own AI (Claude, ChatGPT) so that AI works thoughtfully on your projects. The principles replace one-off prompt instructions and become a behavior guideline.

Based on practice: years of facilitation, recently the Doesburg engagement (a bottom-up community engagement around a caring community) and the Social AI Field Guide (socialaiveldgids.nl). Continuously evolving, not finished.

Give it to your AI

The docs are designed to be understood by a language model. Two ways to do that:

Option A: page by page. Open the raw markdown version of the document you need, copy everything, paste it at the top of your AI conversation with the instruction: "Apply these principles to everything you do for me."

Raw links (open in a new tab, copy everything, paste into your AI):

SOCIAL-AI-PRINCIPES.md for the 15 principles
PROMPT-BEST-PRACTICES.md for concrete prompt design
OwnershipPrinciples.md for the ownership grammar
BottomUpPrinciples.md for bottom-up system change

Option B: the whole bundle in one. en/bundle.md contains all four docs together, open it, copy everything, paste into your AI.

What an AI does with this: instead of explaining per task "please write in participant register, avoid consultant-speak, label inference as inference", the AI gets this as a behavior guideline up front. The rest of your conversation is about the content.

Visual map

Two layers, four docs. Practice on top, foundation underneath.

┌──────────────────────────────────── PRACTICE ────────────────────────────────────┐
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│  │ SOCIAL-AI-PRINCIPES.md             │  │ PROMPT-BEST-PRACTICES.md           │  │
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│  │ 15 principles, 7 clusters          │  │ A concrete translation             │  │
│  │                                    │  │ into prompt design                 │  │
│  │ Fundamental · Disposition ·        │  │                                    │  │
│  │ Method · Attentive ·               │  │ 4 facets · 4 core constraints      │  │
│  │ Data ownership ·                   │  │ 3 AI value levels · multi-pass     │  │
│  │ Anti-decontextualization ·         │  │ review · DIRECT/INFERENCE ·        │  │
│  │ AI value levels                    │  │ quote density                      │  │
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│  │ OwnershipPrinciples.md             │  │ BottomUpPrinciples.md              │  │
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│  │ Where it comes from                │  │ How change emerges                 │  │
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│  │ Psychological grammar ·            │  │ 7 core ideas ·                     │  │
│  │ language principles ·              │  │ preparation + process ·            │  │
│  │ scoring methodology ·              │  │ step-by-step for beginners ·       │  │
│  │ from the Doesburg work             │  │ step-by-step for advanced          │  │
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Practice layer (Principles + Prompts): what you do when AI joins group work.

Foundation layer (Ownership + Bottom-up): why this works, and where the convictions come from.

Two entry points, choose your reading order

Top-down (start with practice): Principles → Prompts → Ownership → Bottom-up.

Choose this if you have a session tomorrow, are building a prompt, or are using AI in ongoing work and want to know which guidelines help. You read the Principles, translate them into concrete prompt design, and only dive into the foundation when you wonder why a principle is the way it is.

Bottom-up (start with the foundation): Bottom-up → Ownership → Principles → Prompts.

Choose this if you want to understand the whole field before you apply it. You first read how bottom-up system change works (the broader context Social AI fits into), then how ownership emerges psychologically and through language, and only then what that means for concrete principles and prompts.

Both paths arrive at the same place. The choice is about where your question is right now.

Living document

Living document, continuously evolving.

Bundle published: 2026-05-20
Oldest docs in this bundle: Ownership, Prompts and Bottom-up, all autumn 2025 (Ownership explicitly from 2025-08-26)
Newest addition: Principles, first version 2026-05-12

Each page has its own "last update" date at the top.

Contributing & feedback

Issues, comments, improvements: open a GitHub issue or send Joost a message via jmfl.nl.

Repo: https://github.com/joostliebregts/thoughtful-social-ai

License

CC-BY-SA 4.0. Share, reuse, build on. Credit the source, use the same license for derivative works.

About the author(s)

By Joost MF Liebregts (jmfl.nl): bottom-up facilitation and the Social AI Field Guide. In collaboration with Finn, AI raid partner in thinking and writing.

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Social AI principles

Living document, continuously in development. First version 2026-05-12. Published publicly 2026-05-20. Last update 2026-05-22.

Part of Thoughtful Social AI. License: CC-BY-SA 4.0. View raw markdown to copy-paste into your AI.

What this document references. As you read, you'll come across a number of specific people and projects that are central to the author's practice. The principles and techniques are generally applicable; these concrete references serve as context, not as a requirement.

Floor de Ruiter: facilitator and thinker on bottom-up change (bottom-upchange.nl)

the Doesburg engagement: a bottom-up community engagement around a caring community, where many of these principles were developed in practice

the Field Guide: Social AI Field Guide at socialaiveldgids.nl

"All of those questions start with the person. Not with the tool, not with the system, not with the prompt."

Canonical bundle for AI-supported work with groups. 15 principles in 7 clusters, plus the mechanism underneath the principles, the underlying disciplines, and three prompt-design translations.

Style: keep the detail, drop the fluff. Voicing kept faithful to the source where possible.

It starts with the person

Before we list the principles: this bundle isn't about AI. It's about people who want something together (a neighborhood, a team, a group of care workers, a district) and how AI can support that work without taking it over.

"Which question do you ask the group? Do people feel safe enough to be honest? Are you asking for experience or for opinion? If you bring in AI: what do you give it? The words of the people themselves, not your summary."

All of those questions start with the person. Not with the tool, not with the system, not with the prompt. These principles try to keep that order intact.

Bridge to the foundation: this bundle rests on a layer of bottom-up practice theory that doesn't live here. For anyone who wants to dig deeper (organic process, leadership shift, fertile ground as a precondition): see Bottom-up. This synthesis is work-oriented; the foundations sit one layer down.

A discipline in development

We're at the start of this AI journey of discovery. What's written here is direction for what we currently see working, not exhaustive, not absolute. Rules are working hypotheses that refine as we learn more. Marking AI inference ("this is an assumption the AI is making itself", "possibly underexposed", "a pattern that isn't explicitly named in the transcript") is valuable where it can be done, as a concrete discipline to protect ownership. Sometimes feasible, sometimes not. Leave room for new forms of adding and new ways to safeguard ownership.

Cross-link with principle 7 (the map is not the territory): these principles are themselves a lens, not a truth. Refinement happens through practice and reflection, not through dogma.

Fundamental

The axis everything turns on. Without these 4, the rest collapses.

1. Wisdom lives in the system. AI helps make it visible.

AI makes visible what is already there. What AI adds, it does with care and marked as such.

Layer 1, wisdom comes out of the system. Participants, their relationships, their invisible networks (the mosque, neighborhood help, barbecues, conversations in shops) already contain the knowledge. AI doesn't invent knowledge that wasn't there. No external expert framework from outside as the starting point. What experts wrote about it is not the main source; the transcripts and conversations themselves are. AI output structures around what participants already know and said. Analyses go back to the source material, not to what others wrote elsewhere about the topic. Things that weren't said are marked as hypothesis (the "Broaden" role), not as fact.

Layer 2, AI's additions are deliberately chosen and marked. What AI sees or makes is not a replacement for what participants said. Structure, connections, hypotheses, scale, readability: that is what AI legitimately adds. Every addition is explicitly labeled, never mixed in with what was said. The level of addition depends on the prompt's goal: a mirror may add almost nothing, synthesis may connect patterns, serendipity may raise questions. Marking "this is an AI inference" or "possibly underexposed" protects ownership.

Where it sits under tension: when publishing toward an external (policy) context, there's pressure to get expert language in. Resist it. If external language is needed: add, don't replace. The other side: scalability and broadening are real AI contributions that a person can't make, so don't reformulate them too conservatively into "AI does nothing". The art lies in which addition fits where, not in keeping additions out.

2. Trust as a precondition, not an outcome

Participation grows out of existing relationships. Trust is the distribution channel and the boundary within which AI may work.

Layer 1, distribution. People don't take part because a process is well designed. They take part because someone they trust invites them. Cold, broadcast invitations don't work in bottom-up work, even if the content is good. This isn't an observation about behavior, it's a design starting point. AI output that documents methodical work for a field where trust is the load-bearing layer has to acknowledge that reality, otherwise it documents something impossible. Trust carriers (informal leaders, trusted neighbors, existing facilitators) are made visible. The same goes for AI output: don't just design the prompt, design how the output reaches the group too: who shares it, with what words around it, at which moment in the process.

Layer 2, care. AI has to handle what was shared with care. What's said in a session is shared under an expectation of safety: I'll handle well what you share with me, so that you can still look me in the eye afterward. AI has to translate that relationship of trust into concrete working rules:

Patterns at group level first; individual statements only where the context carries them
Pulling an individual statement out of context and putting it in a report damages trust, even if the statement is quoted correctly
Touching someone personally misses the intention and lands wrong
How AI handles human material matters as much as what it generates from it

You can't manufacture trust, only use it and not damage it.

Mechanism link: trust isn't an abstract concept, it's rooted in the body-safety axis underneath all the principles (see "The mechanism underneath the principles", "Body and regulation belong here"). Someone who doesn't feel safe can't truly take part, however well-meant the invitation. Pace, pauses, an eye for freeze/flight aren't soft preconditions, they are the precondition for trust itself.

Where it sits under tension:

External stakeholders (funders, policy partners) often want "number of people" as a KPI. Trust doesn't add up. Be explicit about what you can and can't promise.
Efficiency pressure asks for punchy individual quotes in reports. The risk: one statement carries a whole paragraph, but the speaker would now have to defend, in a room, why they said that in that context. The discipline: pattern level first, individual quote only where the context comes along and the speaker can carry it.

3. Augmentation over automation

AI strengthens human judgment. AI never replaces human judgment.

AI may order, connect, make visible, not conclude on people's behalf. Conclusions in synthesis pages are always traceable to who drew them. If AI sees a pattern participants haven't named: mark it as hypothesis (the broadening role), not as fact. For "what do the participants want?" questions: quote them. Never "the group wants X" without a direct source. AI analyzes, the person decides. AI recognizes patterns, the person interprets. AI offers options, the person chooses direction. AI structures, the person keeps the relationships.

Sub-nuance, AI makes participation scalable: alongside what AI may not do (take over), there's also what AI does make possible: making the signal of every voice visible in groups of 50, 100, 200 people. A person can't do that, not at that pace, not in that completeness. Scalability is a value in its own right, as long as the other principles stay intact (no loss of recognition, no privacy violation, no consultant voice).

Where it sits under tension: under high time pressure, AI (and the people using AI) tends toward "tell me what to do". Resist it. Answers that don't come out of the system are not answers for this system.

4. Ownership through language

Their words are their ownership. Paraphrasing destroys what's there.

When someone says "you're talking to a wall", that sentence holds their experience, their energy, their perspective. If the AI output turns that into "there are communication problems", the ownership is gone. The observation now belongs to the analyst, not to the speaker anymore. This isn't a style preference, it's a question of ownership. Verbatim quotes where possible, with a passage reference. Non-verbal expressions (gestures with balls of wool, Lego constructions, body positions, physical food) are "language" too, document them. Paraphrasing is allowed, but mark it.

"Ownership comes from within. We don't grant it, we recognize it." (see Ownership)

Sub-nuance, your words, your plan: ownership through language applies not only to individual statements but also to decisions and plans. "Can't the AI just make the implementation plan?": it absolutely can, but then it belongs to the AI, not to the group.

An answer in a care-institution session: "It absolutely can, but you are the soul of all this. The fact that you talk about it is what makes it likely you'll support it."

Saying it IS the intervention. Articulation creates ownership, not reporting about it. Dialogue builds shared understanding. Co-creation generates authentic ownership. Commitment follows from active participation. AI may structure and offer options, never decide.

Sub-nuance, verbatim is verbatim-in-meaning, not stenography. Disfluencies (uh, um, er; unintended stumble-repeats like "we we have to"; false starts the speaker corrected themselves right away) aren't part of what someone said. Cut them. Word choice, sentence structure, intentional repetition for emphasis ("really, really important") and characteristic speech or dialect ("you get what I mean, right") you leave alone. Test: would the speaker recognize themselves? No markup in the output (no [uh] or [...]); that draws attention to the noise instead of to what was said. When in doubt: better with the disfluency than paraphrased. The verbatim default (see core boundary 3 in Prompt Best Practices) is no excuse to let transcript noise through; preserving their meaning is the rule underneath the verbatim rule.

Where it sits under tension: flowing prose reads more pleasantly than a patchwork of quotes. Beauty can wreck ownership. Choose ownership. Variation: if a participant paraphrases themselves ("what I said was roughly..."), use their paraphrase, not the analyst's.

Disposition

Not method steps, but how you look. It grounds the method.

5. Thoughtfulness

Pattern recognition with attention, not eagerness.

Two modes are possible: pattern eagerness (see a signal, match it against what you know, present it as truth) or thoughtful recognition (see a pattern, check it against reality, present it as a hypothesis with evidence). Only the second counts. Eagerness feels productive but produces wrong output: confident claims that aren't right. OBSERVE before you ACT. On a pattern match: one pass isn't enough, the second pass is critical. Uncertainty is marked, not written away. Thoughtfulness isn't slowness, it's looking deeper. AI has no time pressure, use that room.

Three levels of attention:

Fast (echo, live, 10 seconds): thoughtfulness lives in the question design, not in the AI processing
Considered (post-session, takes its time): trace connections, look at what was NOT said
Deep (multi-session, across an engagement): compare with earlier transcripts, ownership over time

Operational, evidence-level marking: thoughtfulness at the claim level calls for marking what comes DIRECTLY from the transcript versus what is INFERENCE. Three techniques operationalize this: DIRECT/INFERENCE markers, dual certainty scoring (evidence_strength + interpretation_certainty), and certainty levels in language (1-Direct / 2-Pattern / 3-Interpretation / 4-Absence / 5-Open). For the full treatment: see Prompts.

Where it sits under tension: speed pressure, the session is in an hour, we need a synthesis now. Then take one clear point and make it solid, not six half-baked ones. Small and certain beats large and probable. The underlying question: "what was surprising in the data?"; if nothing surprises you, you probably didn't look closely enough.

6. Frustration is fuel

Don't polish it away. Structure the complexity, don't neutralize the discomfort.

Frustration is allowed to be there the way it was spoken. "Frame challenges constructively" kills ownership. "Frustrations are allowed to be there the way they were spoken" keeps it alive. Example: when funding fell away during the Doesburg engagement, the highest level of ownership in the whole dataset emerged. The community realized "we have to take charge ourselves". If AI had been used there to "reframe the loss into new opportunities", this vital rebellion would have been nipped in the bud. Use AI to structure the complexity of frustration. Never use AI to polish away discomfort.

Wider lens: "Energy (often resistance) is the engine: frustration, anger, or resistance to the current situation isn't something to be suppressed, but precisely the fuel that gets the change process going and keeps it going." (see Bottom-up). Frustration is one face of energy/resistance. Anger and critical discomfort belong here too.

Where it sits under tension: unstructured frustration can also paralyze. The choice isn't "polish away or leave it" but: show that three groups put the same frustration into different words, without concluding that it has to be "solved".

7. The map is not the territory

Every principle, every model is a lens. No lens is reality.

Epistemological humility, not relativism. Every theory, every frame in this bundle (including these principles) is an attempt to understand reality better. They're useful insofar as they bring you closer to reality. They aren't truth. Ten years from now a new lens may turn out to be more accurate. Models get refined, merged, rejected: that isn't failure, that's how knowledge works. Claims are marked at the evidence level (direct / inference / broadening). Language like "maybe", "possibly", "I think" isn't doubt but awareness.

Cross-link with principle 5: thoughtfulness is pattern discipline (multi-pass, OBSERVE before ACT). Map-not-territory is lens awareness (claims have an evidence level). They overlap on epistemic humility, with different practical workings. Both needed.

Where it sits under tension: external stakeholders sometimes want certainty, "what is the truth?". This principle isn't an invitation to soften everything down to "maybe... maybe...". It's an invitation to say: "based on what we see now, this seems to work, and here are the limits of what we know." Clear without false authority. At the same time: leaning too hard on "it's only a lens after all" kills action. Humility is no excuse for not acting.

Related to Korzybski's "the map is not the territory", with relatives in systems theory and constructivism.

Method

Functional only if Fundamental + Disposition are in place. How you do the work.

8. Intention before ritual

First the human question, then structure.

Every analysis prompt, facilitator preparation, AI output section starts with: what is the human question here? What do people really want to know, feel, do? Structure placed up front (a template, a ritual, a format) quickly becomes a goal in itself. The question "how do we make sure this gathering feels like a place to speak honestly?" is worth more than "which template do we use for the agenda?". Ritual comes after the intention is clear, not the other way around. AI can make rituals more efficient; the person has to guard the intention.

Sub-nuance, prompt the people first: before you write an AI prompt, design the human experience that generates good input.

"All of those questions start with the person. Not with the tool, not with the system, not with the prompt."

Which question do you ask the group? Do people feel safe enough to be honest? Are you asking for experience or for opinion? "How can we..." suggests you already know something is possible. "How might we..." opens up possibilities. The facilitation question comes before the prompt question. The "deconstructed burger" method: start with the goal, work back to the puzzle pieces, then design questions that draw each puzzle piece out of people.

Where it sits under tension: people (including AI) like it when there's a template. Templates are good after the intention is clear, not before. When in doubt: discard the template and reformulate the intention.

9. Recognition as the touchstone

"Would they say: yes, that's what we meant?" If not: rewrite.

The ultimate test isn't validity, isn't correctness, isn't elegance. It's: do the participants recognize themselves in this? Do they say "yes, that's exactly what we meant"? Or "that sounds like a consultant"? The first = success, the second = failed. If no: rewrite, don't defend. Every synthesis page gets a "mental reading" through the voices it contains. For important conclusions: actual review by participants (the multi-pass review discipline). Draft pages are tested on: does this feel like a frame that works for this group?

Where it sits under tension: reviewers are sometimes unavailable. Time. Emotional load. Proxy review (by the closest trusted person) is second-best. Skipping review and pressing on is not valid. Exception: Ring 1 (facilitator prep) doesn't need to be verified; Rings 2 and 3 do.

10. Pace diverges per person

No group pace. Facilitate individually. Moving along lowers the threshold.

A gathering, an interview, a review round has no "group pace". Each participant has their own pace: how fast they think, how fast they feel safe, how fast they're ready to share. Facilitating on a group pace excludes people. Moving along with an individual pace (tone, length of pauses, depth) lowers the threshold to participation, without being visible as "special treatment". Per-person knowledge: who talks fast, who needs time to think. Gathering analyses distinguish "said by many people" versus "said by few people".

Where it sits under tension: group dynamics pull toward the average. Real facilitation costs extra time and attention per person: that time and attention is the core of what sets bottom-up work apart from top-down work. If there's no room for this tailoring, it becomes top-down with a bottom-up label.

11. Iteration as dialogue

AI is a collaboration partner. Iterating beats fixing it yourself.

If something isn't right in AI output: explain what you want differently, don't tinker with it yourself. "This is 70% of what I'm looking for. What's missing: more concrete examples. Try again." By iterating you learn two things: what AI can do (sometimes things you didn't know yourself) and how to formulate more sharply what you're trying to achieve. The result is better than what you'd have made solo. Four concrete corrections that transform prompts: "AI has no access to the example plan, so include the writing style IN the prompt", "make prompts universal", "the prompt should mainly generate questions for the next group", "AI has access to full transcripts, not fragments".

Reading note, "dialogue" here: this principle is about person-AI iteration (prompt refinement). The wider "dialogue as instrument" in bottom-up practice (person-to-person dialogue as the carrier of ownership) belongs with principle 4 + the mechanism layer, not here. Don't confuse them.

Where it sits under tension: sometimes your gut feeling matters more than the perfect prompt. Iterating must not hide what the group actually needs. The first version of a prompt is never final: the value lies in the accumulation of refinements through feedback.

12. Timing over perfection

When something is said counts more than how perfect it is.

The echo button proved it: 10 seconds, one question, more impact than a 10-page report. When the energy drops, when the conversation goes in circles, when people get stuck: that's when reflection helps. Afterward, as a nice report, it has less impact. AI is fast; timing requires human feel. Who's disengaging? Where is there consensus? When does someone have something to say but doesn't dare? And ultimately: with what feeling do people go home? No AI can answer that question.

Where it sits under tension: deeper analysis often feels more valuable. But live prompts are for speed and accuracy, post-session prompts may go deeper. Choosing wrong wastes the impact. "What does my intuition tell me? What does this group need right now?"

Attentive

Not relevant to every decision, but crucial in naming and scaling decisions.

13. Formalization can destroy what works

Informal networks sometimes die the moment you formalize or scale them.

Much of what carries bottom-up work (the neighborhood help with no name, the son who cares for his mother without calling himself a "caregiver", the coffee moment where things just happen) changes in nature the moment you put a label on it or try to multiply it. Not a reason to document nothing: a reason to document deliberately: what can I show without trapping it? Which language kills, which lets it live? When naming informal roles: check whether the label changes the relationship. Scaling recommendations first ask: does this way of working fit the preservation of informality?

Where it sits under tension: subsidies, policy frameworks, institutional partners ask for formal language. Sometimes unavoidable. In that case: use formal language on the outside (reporting) and informal language on the inside (the workings). Never adjust the inner workings to the external language. This isn't a fundamental principle but an alertness.

Data ownership

Who gets to hold the pen for what's said about you.

14. The data belongs to the people themselves

Write rights alongside read rights. Whoever spoke gets to correct.

AI output with transcripts, interviews, stories has an asymmetry: a structured representation about people emerges, often without them holding the pen themselves. That is a form of power. Acknowledge two axes: read rights (who may see this page? Ring 1 / 2 / 3) + write rights / correction rights (who may change this page, take it back, add what was missed?). Echo loops are the operational working of this. An AI output page is never "done": it's a working document that moves along with the people in it.

Three rings, three correction modes:

Ring 1 (facilitators): internal correction on interpretation and synthesis
Ring 2 (participants): correction on their own quotes, their own role, their own contribution
Ring 3 (public): moderated feedback on published patterns

Where it sits under tension, four cases:

Correction versus evidence: someone wants to remove their quote, but the quote is a key insight. Default: the owner of a quote has veto over their own words in Ring 2 and 3. For analytical integrity: the page can note something like "a voice that was here earlier is now missing" without reproducing the quote. When in doubt: the gentle route is to go back into conversation, not to overrule.
One voice versus group: someone wants to correct a collective passage into their individual perspective. Default: mark collective passages as such (multi-voice: "voices in the group ranged from X to Y"), don't flatten them into one voice. If one voice explicitly indicates that the collective framing isn't right: make that visible ("one voice later indicated they didn't recognize themselves in this framing") without deleting the collective passage.
Write rights versus moderation: Ring 3 (public) gets a feedback option but no direct write rights. Moderation is needed: which feedback touches the principles, which is destructive? Default: the facilitator team moderates. In case of conflict: preferably make it transparent (why feedback X wasn't included) rather than closing it quietly.
Dataset thinking versus people thinking: efficiency calls for bulk rules ("auto-merge all corrections of type X"). Thoughtfulness (principle 5) calls for the opposite: every correction gets human attention. Default: people thinking wins when in doubt.

Anti-decontextualization

How patterns travel without becoming hollow.

15. Context makes the pattern

Portability through making context explicit, not through abstraction.

An approach that worked in this neighborhood only works elsewhere if the ingredients come along: culture, history, specific people, institutions, the moment in time, earlier experiences. The temptation is to abstract patterns ("build trust", "listening as intervention"). That looks portable, but it's hollow: anyone who tries to apply it in another context misses the levers that made it work here. Patterns are documented denser, not thinner. A reader in another context sees which ingredients are missing and can design their own variant, not copy it. The heart of an open pattern ecosystem for bottom-up work: not one blueprint, but a pattern ecosystem where contexts stay visible. "Food as a message" works in a specific neighborhood with its own neighbor-help culture and church roots. Abstracting the same pattern into "food connects" makes it unusable in both directions: too thin to work here, too empty to learn from elsewhere.

Where it sits under tension: context detail versus privacy: the more specific the ingredients, the easier to trace back to individuals. Anonymization that removes the ingredients isn't anonymization: it's impoverishment. Better: a role name ("the informal leader") + enough ingredients that the pattern stays recognizable. Generalization as convenience: it's faster to write "build trust" than to name five ingredients. The discipline: "if someone from another neighborhood reads this, will they know what was here?"

Christopher Alexander's Pattern Language discipline is at the root of this way of working.

AI value levels

Which action does AI deliver? Not what AI can do, but what the prompt may put to work.

The choice between Mirror/Synthesis/Serendipity is functionally a principle-level choice.

Level	AI does	Use for	Anti-pattern
Mirror	Reflects exact words, groups by theme	Direct feedback, vision documents, participant output	"Summarize in clear language": paraphrase kills ownership
Synthesis	Connects patterns, shows frequency	Summaries, cross-table analysis	"Analyze the themes": too vague
Serendipity	Unexpected connections, questions no one asked	Deepening, blind spots	"This means that...": a conclusion closes the door. Questions open it.

Mirror = safest for ownership. The higher the level, the more explicitly you label what comes from AI.

Relation to the 3 AI roles (Mirroring/Deepening/Broadening): two different frameworks that touch the same ground. AI value levels (Mirror/Synthesis/Serendipity) are about what AI does with input: the prompt's output choice. AI roles (Mirroring/Deepening/Broadening) are about what a page in the AI output represents: the page mode. Overlap: both end on a Mirror mode that quotes verbatim. Difference: roles live at the page level (which mode is this), value levels at the prompt level (which output type this prompt asks for).

Framework	Level	What it does
AI value level (prompt)	Mirror / Synthesis / Serendipity	What output the prompt produces
AI role (page in AI output)	Mirroring / Deepening / Broadening	Which mode this page embodies

In prompt design: choose the AI value level deliberately. In page design: choose the AI role deliberately. Avoid mixing the two by accident.

The mechanism underneath the principles

Why the principles work. Not a principle itself, but the psychological, bodily and linguistic workings underneath them.

Ownership has a psychological grammar

Self-efficacy arises locally: people feel "I can do this" only by doing something concrete and small that succeeds (mastery experiences, Bandura). Pep talk and vision alone don't deliver efficacy, they stay an external locus. Bottom-up work requires scale discipline: too big = not felt = pseudo-participation. Touches principles 4 (Ownership through language), 9 (Recognition), 10 (Pace).

"Ownership comes from within. It's not something we grant, but something we recognize and respect." (see Ownership)

Articulation creates ownership

Saying it IS the intervention, not reporting about it. A formulation from a care-institution session where participants asked whether AI couldn't just make the plan: "It absolutely can, but you are the soul of all this. The fact that you talk about it is what makes it likely you'll support it."

Mechanism:

Articulation → creates internal clarity
Dialogue → builds shared understanding
Co-creation → generates authentic ownership
Commitment → follows from active participation

That's why AI works as a mirror, not because the mirror is better than the person, but because the mirror helps people articulate themselves. AI that speaks on people's behalf takes the articulation out of the system and leaves only the report behind. Touches principles 1, 3, 4, 9.

Invitation isn't a style, it's the only form that doesn't force

Ownership that's imposed top-down is by definition no longer ownership. Floor de Ruiter's recipe (ideal state → obstacles → what would you want to do?) is the methodical translation: the question always sits with the participant, and so does the answer. An AI or facilitator who takes this over destroys what it's there for. Touches principles 4, 8 (Intention before ritual) and 9 (Recognition).

Language as form, four languages, one mechanism

Ownership lives on four layers that carry the same mechanism:

Psychology: locus of control (Rotter), self-efficacy (Bandura). Mastery experiences beat pep talk.
Body: waiting until body, emotion and intuition can come along. In freeze/flight, mastery is understood cognitively but not felt.
Language: inviting, not instructing. "We suggest" beats "have to / should". Ownership can't be forced, only invited. The form of the sentences = the form of the ownership.
Self-talk + collaboration: "The way you speak to yourself matters." (Eamon & Bec). How participants talk to themselves and how we address them together form one field. "We have to solve this" → an external obligation. "What would you want to do?" → an invitation to ownership. Language work isn't cosmetics, it's the intervention.

Touches principle 4 and all the invitation work. For the wider theory behind this four-layer lens: see Ownership.

Self-talk and collaboration are the same layer

"The way you speak to yourself matters." (Eamon & Bec). How participants talk to themselves and how we address them together form one field. "We have to solve this" → an external obligation. "What would you want to do?" → an invitation to ownership. Language work isn't cosmetics, it's the intervention. Touches principle 4 and is inseparable from "Language as form" above.

Body and regulation belong here

Cognitive understanding without bodily room is mastery that doesn't land. In group work: participants have to feel safe, dare to feel their emotions, experience room to be themselves. Pace, pauses, an eye for freeze/flight aren't soft preconditions, they are the precondition for the principles to work at all. Touches principles 2 (Trust), 6 (Frustration is fuel) and 10 (Pace).

Underlying disciplines

Not principles but hygiene that safeguards the principles. Operational.

Primary-source discipline

Every claim traces back to transcripts, interviews, original documents. No secondary literature as the main source. No synthesis that leaves the transcript.

Multi-pass review

No one-off synthesis. Iteration with participants. For name assignments, claim verification, quote placement: a critical second pass with an explicit question ("is there an explicit marking in the source?").

Extension, multi-prompt validation for foundation work. When AI output serves as a foundation for further conclusions (coaching, session design, deliverables): run several prompt variants of the same lens in parallel on the same source, where overlap = a robustness signal. Variant typology: baseline + signal-terms-shift + signal-focus-positive. Comparison rule: verbatim / moment overlap, NOT label overlap. For findings with multiple readings: classify as complementary (both hold together), competing (mutually exclusive), or multiple (not yet determinable), keep both readings, no pressure to synthesize. For the full recipe: see Prompts.

Positive-first as an anti-default pull (observed across 3 lenses)

What we seem to be seeing. AI-driven pattern analysis has a blind spot for quiet positive moments that are right there in the same source. A mixed pass (look for both sides in one prompt) helps, but still systematically misses the quiet positive. A separate pass that asks ONLY for the positive catches that extra part.

We haven't proven this absolutely, but we have observed it consistently across three lenses and two kinds of sources. Handle it with care: treat it as a strong working hypothesis, not as a law.

The wider claim, a change-practice contribution. "It's much more effective to change people by asking whether they can do more of what they already do, by affirming what's going well, than to sit in that friction of: hey, you need to do this better." Strengthening what already works is a stronger change mechanism than correcting what doesn't. In pattern research that lands in human practice: highlight both sides as the default, and for high-quality foundation work an extra positive-only pass goes on top of that. Otherwise the positive gets diluted under the negative.

Observed across 3 lenses (2026-05-20):

L1 (language mechanisms) + L2 (group dynamics) on breakouts. The blind spot is consistent.
L7 (self-reflection on the AI role + own contribution) on a mixed set (working docs + meetings + transcripts). It recurs.
Path-C-revised test (mixed baseline + lens patch): catches only 2 of 5 unique positive catches. Quiet positives missed.

The pattern we see: quiet positives in dense context. Three forms:

Quiet positives within a negative stream: a positive moment playing out at the same time as a big negative statement in the same minute. The analysis grabs the loud negative first; the quiet positive gets swept along in the same reading. Example: in a plenary after a breakout, 3 voices saying "let the AI just do it" stood next to a familiar pushback cascade. The default prompt only saw the cascade.
Quiet positives right beside an extensive problem: a working process that sits one sentence further on in a long description of what went wrong. The attention is on the problem; the working pattern next to it gets skipped. Example: in a long conversation, one participant mentioned in a single sentence a working directors-feedback loop, embedded in 2 hours about what went wrong. None of the mixed prompts picked up this sentence.
Quiet positives spread across several pieces: a positive pattern that only becomes visible when you read three or four different pieces of one document together. Each piece on its own is too small. Example: a three-layer pre-check system is only recognizable by reading three sections together. The default prompt found them individually, not as a coherent whole.

Clearly spoken positive moments (design choices that are explicitly named as "we're keeping this", check moments where someone says "yes, this is right") are caught reliably by mixed prompts. Quiet positives aren't.

Don't force it. This is knowledge, not an automatic rule. When a facilitator says "I only want to know the tensions right now": give the tensions. The prompt may not then build in the positive side on the basis of this observation, against the wish. The knowledge is that it's wise to highlight both sides where that fits, not that it always must.

Practical implication: see Prompts for a concrete 3-pass setup.

Operational disciplines (out of scope for this bundle)

There is also a layer of operational disciplines (inline-viz, visual-bridge, assert-with-evidence, folder-wide-grep, consolidate-source-docs). These are about how you work in a specific work context, not about principles for AI-supported work with groups.

The reason to mark this explicitly here rather than leave it out: readers of this bundle might expect all disciplines to live here too. They don't.

Four core boundaries for prompts with transcripts

A translation of the principles into concrete prompt rules. Not principles themselves, but a mandatory boundary for prompt work.

Base output strictly on the transcript(s), no inventions (principle 1 + 3)
When in doubt: "possibly underexposed" instead of a firm assertion (principle 5 + 7)
Use their own words and terminology (principle 4)
Name open points and contradictions explicitly (principle 5 + 6 + 14)

How strictly to apply them depends on the prompt type: mirror level all four, synthesis 1+2+4, serendipity 2+4, echo only #3, brainstorm none required.

For the full treatment: see Prompts.

Four facets as a compass

Which facet does my prompt serve? If you can't name it, the prompt is probably too vague.

Facet	What AI does	What the prompt must enforce	Touches principle
Magnifying glass	Make visible what's already there	Base strictly on the transcript, keep their words	1 + 4
Connector	Create connection across difference	Name contradictions instead of resolving them, show patterns	5 + 6 + 14
Space-maker	Take over the busywork	Structure without interpreting, quickly usable	3 + 12
Scale-maker	Make possible what was impossible before	Privacy protection, abstraction without loss of recognition	14 + 15

Changelog

2026-05-12: v2 canonical created. Synthesis from 4 sources + 11 author-approved adjustments + 4 cross-skill-check improvements (Soul Principle in the mechanism + §4b quote, bridge to bottom-up in the opener, language axis made explicit in the mechanism, core sentence "Not with the tool" verbatim). Name finalized as "Social AI principles". The 3 AI value levels moved to a 4th cluster. Operational disciplines marked explicitly out of scope. Principle 1 voicing "invisible networks" (source-literal). Principle 14 tension expansion (4 cases). Principle 5 source-claim correction.
2026-05-12 (evening): Principle 2 (Trust) expanded with an explicit two-layer structure: Layer 1 distribution (existing) + Layer 2 care with shared material by AI (new). Pull quote expanded ("and the boundary within which AI may work"). Tension bullet for layer 2 added (efficiency pressure versus context care). Previously the canonical only had distribution + the body-safety mechanism; now it's explicit how AI should handle group versus individual level material.
2026-05-20: Multi-prompt validation method + the naming convention complementary/competing/multiple readings added under the Multi-pass review discipline.
2026-05-20 (later): Pending observation "Positive-first dimension in multi-prompt analysis" added. Status: to be validated via a second-lens test.
2026-05-20 (evening, after path-C-revised): Positive-first dimension moved from "Pending observations" to ### Positive-first as an anti-default pull under ## Underlying disciplines. Observed across 3 lenses (L1, L2, L7). Named pattern "quiet positives in dense context" with three forms (within a negative stream / right beside an extensive problem / spread across several pieces). Framing: working hypothesis, not law. Don't-force-it clause made explicit.

Building prompts for AI-supported group work

Living document, continuously evolving. First version autumn 2025. Published publicly 2026-05-20. Last update 2026-05-19.

Part of Thoughtful Social AI. License: CC-BY-SA 4.0. View raw markdown for copy-paste into your AI.

What this document references. As you read, you'll come across a number of specific tools, projects, and people that are central to the author's practice. The principles and techniques are generally applicable; these concrete references serve as context, not as a requirement.

Dembrane: a transcript and dialogue platform for group work where many of these prompts were developed

Maarten Essenburg: facilitator colleague (one of the practice examples in this doc)

the Doesburg engagement: a bottom-up community engagement around a caring community (the reference source for the frustration-as-fuel and ownership examples)

the Field Guide: Social AI Field Guide at socialaiveldgids.nl (the practice context these prompts land in)

What people say is already enough. A good prompt helps AI make that visible, without adding anything to it.

A reference for anyone designing prompts for their own sessions that follow this philosophy. Not a generic "prompt engineering 101", a philosophy translated into concrete design rules. The seven baseline guidelines for public AI output below are always-active; further on we refer to "guideline #N" to quickly recall the same rule.

Seven baseline guidelines for public AI output

These seven guidelines form the always-active foundation under every prompt whose output leaves the workspace (participant output, public posts, client reports, AI output that reaches participants through a platform). Further on in this document we refer to them in short as "guideline #N".

#	Guideline	One-liner
1	Em-dash ban for outward output	No `—` or `--`. Comma, colon, parentheses, or a new sentence. Internal (chat, working documents) is fine.
2	AI-protagonist ban (with inference exception)	No "AI noticed" / "our analysis" / "the algorithm thinks". Exception: explicit inference as (a) an open question to the group, (b) marked without an ownership claim, (c) valuable. DO: "In the analysis it stood out that... is this a shared concern?". DON'T: "Our analysis shows that...".
3	Privacy and names: simplest human form	Default = simplest anonymized: "a participant" / "participant 1". Specificity only when it adds value. Hierarchy: (1) "a participant", (2) role description, (3) workstream or group tag, (4) full name only with permission. Redaction placeholders never visible.
4	Recognition test	Test after output: "yes, that's what we said" or "sounds like a consultant"? If it fails, rewrite.
5	Verbatim default and strictly-on-transcript	Output carries their words. No fabrications, no paraphrases that strip ownership away. When in doubt: "possibly underexposed".
6	Steer the document voice actively	Non-quote text (headings, intro sentences, connective tissue) is actively steered: participant, facilitator, or project register. AI-default-English = failure mode, not an allowed outcome. Default: participant register.
7	Care with shared material	Patterns at the group level first; individual statements only where the context can carry them. Pulling something out of context damages trust, even with correct quoting. Test: "Can someone look you in the eye after this output has landed and say 'you handled what I shared well'?". See the full working rules in Principles principle #2, Layer 2.

Scope: participant output, public posts, client reports, AI output that reaches participants through platforms. Not: internal work, scratch analysis, code. When in doubt: treat as outward.

The core in three sentences

AI makes visible what is already there. What AI adds, it does with care and marked as such.
A prompt is not an instruction to a machine. It is a design for how AI may mirror human wisdom.
If people don't recognize themselves in the output, the prompt has failed.

Why this matters: three moments

Rules only become meaningful once you feel why they exist. Three moments from practice.

The bike-helmet moment

Facilitator Maarten Essenburg facilitated an online session about children's smartphone use. Tired, late at night online, host and technician at the same time. Afterwards he asked AI to analyze the conversation. AI surfaced a quote he had completely missed:

"Your child rides to school on their bike for the first time, helmet on. Comes home and says: 'Nobody in the whole class wears a helmet. I won't either anymore, otherwise I don't fit in.'"

Exactly the heart of what the whole group was wrestling with. AI gave him back his own words, organized so that the pattern became visible. His words, his insight.

That's why: "base strictly on the transcript." That's why: "use their exact words."

"Mouths falling open"

A facilitator ran a session about neighborhood transformation. After 45 minutes of intense dialogue he pressed the echo button. AI generated, within 10 seconds, a single question that summarized the entire conversation. The author: "From my vantage point, I saw what I can only describe as mouths falling open."

Not a brilliant analysis. One question, at the right moment.

That's why: timing over perfection. The echo prompt is 4 lines. The impact was 45 minutes of breakthrough.

"Literally what we said"

During a mental-health transformation session, AI turned the transcript into a draft sub-plan. Participants' reaction: "Whoa, wait, this is literally what we said. And now it's in a concept draft."

A transition from surprise to trust to ownership. Recognition built trust, trust made room for ownership.

That's why: the recognition criterion. If they say "that's what we said", it works. If it sounds like a consultant, it doesn't.

The philosophical basis

The four facets as a compass

Every prompt serves at least one facet. The facet determines what the prompt may do and what it may not.

Facet	What AI does	What the prompt must enforce
Magnifying glass	Making visible what is already there	Base strictly on the transcript; preserve their words
Connector	Creating connection across difference	Name contradictions, don't resolve them; show patterns
Space-maker	Taking over the busywork	Structure without interpreting; fast, usable output
Scale-maker	Making possible what was impossible before	Privacy protection; abstraction without loss of recognition

Test: which facet does my prompt serve? Not being able to name it = too vague.

The eight principles, translated into prompt design

Principle	What it means for your prompt
Ownership through language	Instruct AI to use their exact words, not to paraphrase. "Communication problems" destroys ownership; "you're talking to a wall" preserves it.
Timing over perfection	Design prompts that deliver usable output fast. A simple echo question at the right moment > an extensive analysis afterwards.
Ritual vs intention	Does this prompt change the ritual (safe) or the intention (dangerous)? AI may replace sticky notes, but not the dialogue that goes with them.
Your words, your plan	AI may structure and offer options, never decide. Output = a starting point for conversation, not a finished product.
Iteration as dialogue	The first version is never final. Build in feedback loops: test, evaluate, refine. A good prompt doesn't appear, it evolves.
Prompt the people first	First design the human experience (what question do you ask the group?), only then the AI prompt. The best AI prompt fails if the input experience isn't right.
Thoughtfulness as design	Instruct AI to look with the attention that wasn't there before. AI has no time pressure: use that room. Post-session: let AI trace patterns people miss because they're too busy. Multi-session engagements: let AI connect what was said months ago with what's happening now. Depth that facilitators can't reach because they have to move on to the next session.
Trust as a precondition	Who receives the prompt, how the material reaches them, counts more than how good the prompt itself is. Output design always checks: through which bridge of trust does the AI output reach the group? Who introduces, shares, translates? Without a bridge, even perfect output doesn't land.

Prompt the people first

A fundamental principle that deserves its own section. Most prompt designers start with the AI: "what should the AI do?" This philosophy turns it around: "what should the human experience first?"

The three layers

Safety: People only really share once they feel seen. No prompt compensates for an unsafe space.
Connecting stories: Lived experience can't be disputed. Rational summaries can. Ask for stories, not opinions.
Language steers thinking: "How can we..." suggests you already know that it's possible. "How might we..." opens up possibilities.

The symbiosis: human question and AI prompt

The human question and the AI prompt = two sides of the same design. They reinforce each other:

The human question (to the group)	The AI prompt (on the transcript)
"What brings you here today?"	"Mirror the core motivations in their own words"
"What are you running into?"	"Structure the frustrations without smoothing them over"
"What would you want to do differently tomorrow?"	"Extract concrete actions, preserve their language"
"What are we still missing?"	"Identify absences and phrase them as a question"

The human question determines what ends up in the transcript. The AI prompt determines what becomes visible with it. A weak human question (closed, abstract, unsafe) = no AI prompt compensates for that.

What this means for prompt design

Don't start with "how do I instruct the AI." Start with: what question do I ask the group? Do people feel safe enough to be honest? Am I asking for experience or opinion? Is my question inviting or limiting?

Only then do you design the AI prompt. The prompt doesn't have to contain this human design, but its quality depends on it entirely.

Trust as a precondition

Two layers. Trust has a distribution layer and a care layer. Here is Layer 1 (distribution: who shares, how it arrives). Layer 2 (care in how AI handles shared material, patterns versus individuals): see the section "The thoughtfulness and trust layer" further on, plus Principles principle #2 for the full working rules.

A prompt produces output, the output goes somewhere. Who receives it, and how it reaches them, determines whether it works. Not prompt quality alone.

Participation grows out of existing relationships. Trust = the distribution channel. People read, respond to, use something because someone they trust brings it to them. A brilliant synthesis without a bridge of trust doesn't get read. The same piece shared by a facilitator the group already knows: gets attention.

For the prompt designer: don't only design the prompt, design the distribution too. Who shares the AI output? At what moment? In what form? Who introduces it? An echo prompt at the right moment by the right facilitator > an extensive report straight to participants.

Concrete consequences for prompt design

Who receives AI output may sometimes go explicitly into the prompt: "Write for a group that trusts [facilitator name] and is used to [register]."
Output to people who don't know the AI layer: stricter on the AI-protagonist ban (guideline #2). Unknown AI in an unknown voice = no bridge of trust.
When in doubt whether output will land: first ask who shares it and how, not whether the prompt can be refined.

Tension

External stakeholders (funders, leadership) often want "quantity of output" as a KPI. Trust doesn't add up. Be explicit about what AI output can achieve (visibility within an existing network of trust) and what it can't (forming the network of trust itself).

The golden rule

Prompts in this bundle should be near-literal copies of prompts that were actually used.

What's not allowed

Inventing prompts that "sound good"
Fabricating examples with fictional names
Generic templates that haven't been tested
Claiming something "comes from practice" when it isn't documented

What is allowed

Writing explanation around real prompts
Adding context about when and how something was used
Naming patterns that emerge from multiple sources
Describing variations that follow logically from documented practice

Checklist while writing

Does this appear literally (or near-literally) in a source file?
Can I point to where this comes from?
Is the example based on a real documented story?
Would the author recognize this as something he actually did?

Three axes for prompt architecture

Every prompt sits on three axes at once. Choosing one axis without the other two = implicit choices that steer the output. Make them explicit.

The three axes

Axis	What it determines	Who chooses	Vocabulary
1. Thoughtfulness level	Quality-of-attention in the design	Human designer, before the prompt	Fast / Considered / Deep
2. Effort tier	LLM execution discipline (ISC + capabilities + budget)	Human sets the tier, the Algorithm enforces the discipline	Instant to Comprehensive (7 tiers)
3. AI value level	What AI does with the input	Human designer, depending on the goal	Mirror / Synthesis / Serendipity

Axis 1 and Axis 3 = designer choices (before the prompt). Axis 2 = execution discipline (during the prompt). Axis 3 = orthogonal to Axis 1+2; any combination is possible.

Order of choosing

Thoughtfulness level first. What is the intention? A live signal, post-session deepening, or multi-session engagement-wide looking?
AI value level next. What should AI do? Reflect their words back (Mirror), connect patterns (Synthesis), or open up questions (Serendipity)?
Effort tier scales along. How high are the stakes? Live + low-stakes = Instant/Fast. Post-session + high texture requirement = Extended/Advanced. Multi-session + cross-engagement comparison = Deep/Comprehensive.

Crosswalk to existing vocabularies

Five vocabularies in practice point to the same underlying choice:

Axis 1 + Axis 2	PROMPT-BEST-PRACTICES	Leaving the platform?	4-layer model	Workflow split
Fast + Instant/Fast	"Echo, live"	Platform YES (LIVE)	Auto-summary + LIVE plenary	Standard platform
Considered + Standard	"Post-session internal"	Platform YES (coaching)	Coaching to facilitators	Platform + fidelity
Considered + Extended/Advanced	"Post-session participant output"	Platform NO (name on it)	Report to participants	Subagent route
Deep + Deep/Comprehensive	"Multi-session engagement-wide"	Platform NO (plateau)	Future	Subagent + sub-reports

Application examples

Live echo (10 sec) during a mental-health session: Fast + Fast + Mirror. The echo prompt is 4 lines, the thoughtfulness is in the question design.
Post-session participant document (per workstream): Considered + Advanced + Mirror. High texture requirement, subagent route via Opus, 24-48 ISC.
Cross-session ownership-evolution report (Doesburg engagement, M1-M12): Deep + Deep + Synthesis. Compare transcripts over time, full domain decomposition, 40+ ISC.
Multi-session blind-spot analysis: Deep + Comprehensive + Serendipity. "What was never said across 12 meetings? Which absences are meaningful?"

Detailed breakdown per axis

Axis 1 (Thoughtfulness level): see the section "Thoughtfulness levels" below.
Axis 2 (Effort tier): canonical in an effort-tier framework with "Effort Levels".
Axis 3 (AI value level): see the section "The three levels of AI value" directly below.

The three levels of AI value

Every prompt operates on one of three levels. Choose deliberately.

Level	AI does	Use for	Prompt example
Mirror	Reflects exact words, groups by theme	Direct feedback, vision documents	"Mirror: make themes visible in their words"
Synthesis	Connects patterns, shows frequency	Summaries, cross-table analysis	"Synthesize the through-lines across all conversations"
Serendipity	Unexpected connections, questions nobody asked	Deepening, blind spots	"What unexpected connections do you see?"

Anti-patterns per level

Level	Don't do this	Do this
Mirror	"Summarize in clear language"	"Use their exact words"
Synthesis	"Analyze the themes" (too vague)	"Connect themes from table 1 and 2, show overlap and difference"
Serendipity	"This means there's a trust problem" (conclusion)	"Could it be that 'time' means something different to each group?" (question)

Rule of thumb: Mirror-level prompts = safest for ownership. The higher the level, the more explicitly you have to label what comes from AI.

Thoughtfulness levels

Besides the AI value level (Mirror/Synthesis/Serendipity) you also choose a depth of attention. How much room the prompt takes to really look, not just faster, but deeper than a human can.

Level	AI attention	When	What the prompt must do
Fast	Echo, live, 10 seconds	During a session	Thoughtfulness in question design, not in AI processing. Keep the prompt short and focused.
Considered	Post-session, takes its time	After a session, for preparation	Instruct: "Take your time. Trace connections. Look at what was NOT said. State uncertainties explicitly."
Deep	Multi-session, engagement-wide	For longer engagements with multiple sessions	Instruct: "Compare with earlier transcripts. How does ownership shift over time? Which subsystems become visible? What is new, what returns, what has disappeared?"

The core: thoughtfulness is not "use more time." It's a way of looking. AI can compare enormous amounts of data with each other; a human barely can. That capacity for depth is exactly what AI adds to facilitation work.

Temporal instructions (for Considered/Deep level)

Add by default to every prompt above "Fast" level when earlier data is available:

IF earlier transcripts or analyses are available:
- Compare core themes with earlier sessions
- Trace shifts in ownership language over time
- Name what is new, what returns, and what has disappeared
- Phrase as: "In session [N], [speaker] said '[X]', now [speaker] says '[Y]', what shifted?"
- Look at ownership scores: are they rising, falling, or stagnating?

Scaffolding by model intelligence

Not every model picks up philosophical framing. Adjust prompt complexity to the model:

Model level	Philosophical framing	Instruction style	Examples
High (Claude Opus/Sonnet, GPT-4o)	Yes, "look with the attention that wasn't there before"	Principles + trust in the model	1-2 examples as a guideline
Medium (Haiku, GPT-4o-mini)	Brief, translate principles into concrete rules	Detailed, name every step	3-4 examples per pattern
Basic (smaller/local models)	Skip, too abstract	Algorithmic, decision-tree instructions	Worked-out examples with expected output

The same instruction at three levels:

High: "Look at what was not said. Which absences stand out?"

Medium: "Step 1: Read the transcript. Step 2: Make a list of topics that were mentioned. Step 3: Compare with the agenda items. Step 4: Name topics that were on the agenda but not discussed. Step 5: Phrase as a question: 'Not discussed: [topic]. Is this conscious or unconscious?'"

Basic: "Compare these two lists. List A: [agenda items]. List B: [topics mentioned in transcript]. Write down which items are in List A but not in List B. For each item write: 'Not discussed: [item].'"

Only deploy frameworks if they add value

Frameworks like Spiral Dynamics value frames, other typologies, catalog-style labels have a pull: they quickly deliver a "value frames in play" section. In practice they're often filler.

Default: OFF. An explicit ON-condition is required. All three true:

Participants actually use the framework in the session (words, examples, distinctions that refer to it)
Naming the frame adds something that wouldn't be visible without the framework
The target audience for the output can work with the framework (e.g. coaches trained in SD (internal mirror); not a raw group)

Anti-pattern: pasting in an SD section because it looks "more complete". Template thinking, not thoughtfulness. Empirically: 4 out of 4 workstreams in session 1 at an international organization, the Spiral Dynamics section was filler without exception. Verified across iteration v2 to v5.

Ownership evolution in prompts

When a prompt includes ownership scoring AND there is earlier session data, add:

IF ownership scores from earlier sessions are available:
- Compare scores per person or group over time
- Use longitudinal quotes: "In session 1, [name] said '[X]' (score 0.4),
  now [name] says '[Y]' (score 0.7), ownership is growing"
- Name patterns: who grows, who stagnates, who falls back?
- Also name system factors that influence ownership

See Ownership section "Evolution Over Time".

The four core constraints

When your prompt works with transcripts or conversation records, these four constraints are your foundation. Strictness depends on the prompt type: a mirror prompt on literal quotes requires all of them; a brainstorm prompt on free input maybe not.

1. Base output strictly on the transcript(s), no fabrications
2. When in doubt: "possibly underexposed" instead of a firm claim
3. Use their own words and terminology
4. Name open points and contradictions explicitly

When all four, when not?

Type of prompt	Which constraints	Why
Mirror (vision, themes)	All four	Ownership depends on exactness
Synthesis (patterns, connections)	1, 2 and 4	In synthesis AI may connect, but not invent
Serendipity (questions, blind spots)	2 and 4	AI may observe freely, but must be honest about uncertainty
Echo (live, 10 seconds)	3	Speed is essential; the core constraint is to preserve their language
Brainstorm (free input, no transcript)	None required	Different context, different rules

Why each constraint matters

1. Strictly on the transcript: Without this instruction, AI starts "filling in" with its own knowledge. The result sounds convincing but isn't from the participants. A co-researcher warns: "That list reads like, oh, this is very convincing, and I believe it's possible. I believe people have said this. But are they the only outliers? How has it been weighted?"

2. When in doubt, name it: AI that sounds certain while it's guessing undermines trust the moment someone checks it. "Possibly underexposed" leaves room for correction without losing face.

3. Their own words: "You're talking to a wall" carries ownership. "Communication problems" doesn't. Paraphrasing breaks the recognition.

4. Naming contradictions: Resolving contradictions is human work. If two groups want something different, the prompt should show that, not smooth it away.

Quote density as a design choice

For output that uses quotes from transcripts: set a quote cap per output section. The cap prevents reading overload. Too many quotes = the pattern becomes impossible to find; too few = the work becomes paraphrase in practice.

Drop priority when over cap

Duplicates, the same point another quote already makes
Paraphrasables, meaning isn't lost in paraphrase
Stylistic flourish, no load-bearing content

Keep priority

Contestation anchors, quotes that carry load-bearing disagreement
Specific tensions with unusual phrasing, formulations that are unique to the speaker
Unusual phrasings the group will recognize, recognition-criterion anchor

Model-specific calibration

Cap numbers differ per model. Gemini 2.5 Pro: target 10-12 quotes per WS section, hard cap 15 (soft caps of 7 get ignored unless a scratchpad is used). Opus 4.6 subagents: 4-7 quotes achievable without a scratchpad. The difference is in model self-discipline, not in the principle. For platform-specific calibration numbers: see the documentation of the transcript platform you're using. The principle (cap + drop/keep priority) is universal.

The recognition criterion

The ultimate test for any prompt output:

IF participants think "yes, that's what we said" → SUCCESS
IF participants think "that sounds like a consultant" → FAILURE

Build this criterion into your prompt as an instruction:

SUCCESS CRITERION: Participants must recognize themselves.
If they think "yes, that's what we said" → success.
If they think "that sounds like a consultant" → failure.

The labeling principle: who said what

Output must always distinguish between what people said and what AI notices. Not optional.

Structure

### What participants said
[Literal quotes, their words, their framing, ownership intact]

### What AI notices (for inspiration)
[Patterns, connections, unexpected observations, clearly labeled as AI]

Why this works

"What participants said" = their ownership intact, recognition possible
"What AI notices" = explicit marking that this is interpretation
"For inspiration" = a signal that this is optional, not prescriptive

Without labeling, people can't tell what is theirs and what AI added. The labeling principle makes "AI as a mirror" possible without losing ownership.

Multi-voice handling

A group is not one voice. Yet there's a pull for AI to overstate collective intent: "the group named", "you came to the table to", "you proposed". These phrasings imply more shared intention than multi-voice rooms have. Three rules for multi-voice output.

Voice texture default

Default phrasing for multi-voice conversations:

voices in the group ranged from [verbatim X] to [verbatim Y]
one voice raised X; another responded Y
several voices echoed [verbatim phrasing], one voice held back

When to use collective phrasing: only when genuine consensus emerged, the same position, multiple voices, no counter-position in the transcript.

Anti-pattern list (ban in the prompt)

Anti-pattern	Why ban it	Replace with
"you came to the table to..."	Implies shared intention + a physical metaphor	"voices joined the conversation around..."
"the group named..."	Implies a collective speech act	"one voice named X; another responded Y"
"you proposed..."	Implies a collective proposal	"[name/voice] put forward..." (with role attribution, no name)
"you came in with..."	Implies a shared stance	"voices entered with a range of openings..."
"the group agreed that..." (without evidence of consensus)	Implies consensus that wasn't there	"no counter-position emerged on..."

Load-bearing disagreement pattern

When two voices took opposite positions that did not converge, treat the disagreement as first-class output, not a parenthetical aside. The verbatim pattern in the prompt:

"Two distinct positions emerged here that did not converge in the room: one voice argued [verbatim X], another responded [verbatim Y]."

Detection criteria, all three true:

Two+ voices took clearly opposite positions on the same underlying question
No voice retracted or softened
The group moved on without reconciling

Contestation priority: scope beats process

With multiple load-bearing-disagreement candidates: pick the one about scope / mandate / ownership over process / inclusion / representation. Open "should we...?" questions without actively-held opposing positions do NOT count as load-bearing; that's an open-question invitation, not contestation.

Example:

Load-bearing (scope): "Voice A wants to cap this project at €50K; Voice B thinks we need at least €200K." Two actively-held opposite positions, the same question, no convergence.
Not load-bearing (open question): "Should we expand to a third workshop?", no voices taking an explicit pro/con position.

Why this deserves its own section

Multi-voice handling = not a detail. Output that overstates collective intent = the most common way facilitator output reads as a consultant voice. Readers immediately recognize that "you came to the table to" didn't come out of their mouth, ownership gone. Hard rules in the prompt, not best-effort. Empirically verified through a pilot at an international organization (session 1, v1 to v5 iteration cycle): a hard rule + (a)/(b) replacement strategies reduce collective-intent overstatement to 0 in v4-v5.

Marking DIRECT vs INFERENCE

A prompt pattern from a later prompt architecture that makes every analysis prompt stronger.

Be explicit about what you take DIRECTLY from the transcript
vs. what you INTERPRET.
Mark every claim as:
- [DIRECT], literal quote or explicit statement
- [INFERENCE], your interpretation of what was said

Why this is valuable

It makes the difference visible between "someone literally said X" and "I infer that Y." It prevents AI interpretations from being presented as facts. It builds trust: facilitators can check exactly where output comes from.

Dual confidence scoring

Another pattern from prompt evolution: split "how sure am I?" into two separate scores.

Score	What it measures	Example
Evidence_strength (0.00-1.00)	How strong is the evidence in the transcript?	0.9 = multiple literal quotes; 0.3 = one vague reference
Interpretation_certainty (0.00-1.00)	How sure am I of my reading?	0.9 = clear; 0.4 = multiple readings possible

When useful: for analysis prompts where you want AI to be honest about the basis of its claims. Not needed for simple mirror prompts.

Confidence levels in language

How AI should phrase uncertainty, from certain to uncertain.

Level	Phrasing	When
1, Direct	"Participants said literally: '[quote]'"	A literal quote is available
2, Pattern	"Multiple participants referred to [theme]"	Multiple statements point the same way
3, Interpretation	"Possibly underexposed: [topic]"	Inferred from context, not said literally
4, Absence	"Not mentioned in this conversation: [topic]"	Something you expect but don't find
5, Open	"Still to be aligned: [contradiction]"	An unresolved tension between perspectives

Anti-pattern:

Not: "This means there's a trust problem" (conclusion)
Yes: "Could it be that 'time' means something different to each group?" (question)

Transcript artifacts handling

Transcripts contain artifacts: mishearing, garbled acronyms, names mis-transcribed, audio drops that cut off words. A verbatim quote with an artifact that makes the meaning unintelligible = a problem. Three options.

The three options for mishearing

Option	When	Example
(a) Flag inline	The reader can move on with the flag, the artifact is a word	`"we had a [likely: ACRONYM] conversation with..."` (transcript said a misheard variant)
(b) Pick a different verbatim segment	The same meaning carries in another segment from the same voice	Replace the quote with another quote from the same speaker where the artifact isn't present
(c) Sidestep via paraphrase	No other verbatim is possible; the rest of the quote is still valuable	Lift the claim out without quotation marks, marked as a paraphrase

Don't do: silently reproducing an artifact. The reader sees a word that isn't a word, trust breaks.

Known-artifact list per project

In the prompt, explicitly name which artifacts are known for this project. Examples from real projects:

Artifact (transcript)	Likely correction	Project
`class`	`Quass`	(example)
`EFAD`	`ACRONYM`	(example of a misheard acronym)
`co business`	`core business`	(example)

The known-artifact list is project-specific. It doesn't belong in the master document, it belongs in a per-client pointer file.

In the prompt

For a verbatim quote with a transcription artifact (mishearing, garbled term) that makes the meaning unintelligible:
- (a) flag inline: [likely: corrected_term]
- (b) pick a different verbatim segment
- (c) sidestep via paraphrase (without quotation marks)

Known-artifact list for this project:
[explicit list per project]

Don't reproduce silently.

Why this deserves its own section

The same mechanism as ownership-through-language (principle 4): their words count, but an artifact word is not their word, it's a transcription error. The verbatim default (core constraint #3) = no excuse to let artifacts through; preserving their meaning is the rule beneath the verbatim rule.

Prompt anatomy: forms and variations

There's no single way to build a prompt. An echo prompt = 4 lines. A thematic synthesis prompt = 30. What they share is intention, not format. Below is an extensive building block for more complex prompts, but remember: the most powerful prompt is the shortest one.

**Role**: [Specific expertise, be precise]

**Context**: [Input sources, project background, relevant values]

**Crucial constraints**:
- Base output strictly on the transcript(s), no fabrications
- Name open points and uncertainties explicitly
- Use their own words and terminology
- [Additional specific constraints]

**Instructions**:
1. [First step, often analysis or data review]
2. [Second step, often categorization or prioritization]
3. [Third step, often synthesis or making connections]
4. IF [condition] THEN [specific approach]
5. [Final step, often formatting and transparency]

**Output format**:
[Specific structure with headings, sections, transparency blocks]

Per section

Section	Function	Common mistake
Role	Gives AI a specific lens	Too vague ("you are an AI assistant") instead of specific ("you are a precise note-taker who records explicitly made decisions")
Context	Tells AI what it gets and why	Forgetting to name how many transcripts, what type of session, whether there is earlier AI output
Constraints	Limits that protect ownership	Forgetting the four core constraints
Instructions	A step plan in active language	Too few steps (AI improvises) or no conditional logic
Output format	What the result looks like	No labeling (what participants said vs what AI notices)

When less is enough

Not every prompt needs all sections. Three forms that work in practice:

Form	When	Example
Full building block (5-6 sections)	Post-session analysis, vision document, implementation plan	Thematic synthesis, WHY prompt
Compact (role + constraints + output)	Specific extraction, targeted analysis	Core-decision capture, energy analysis
Minimal (context + one instruction)	Live intervention, quick reflection	Echo prompt, fresh-eyes question

The echo prompt proved that 4 lines are enough for the most powerful intervention. Complexity is not a quality.

The transparency footer

For documents that go to participants = a transparency footer is valuable. The heavier the document (vision, plan, synthesis), the more important. For a live echo question of two sentences: overkill.

> **About this output:** This [synthesis/analysis/vision] was made by AI
> based on your conversation of [date]. It's a tool to help you structure
> your own ideas, not perfect, but a starting point for further
> conversation. This remains your story; the AI only helps to bundle
> and connect your ideas.

The prompt as architecture, not as a loose instruction

One of the most important meta-lessons from the enrichment sessions of February 2026:

The prompt IS the technique. Especially in phase 2 and 3, the included prompts are not loose little instruments to execute a theory; the prompt IS the architecture of the theory.

Don't treat prompt design as an afterthought. The prompt determines what AI sees, how it structures, which language it uses, what it may and may not conclude. A weak prompt with a strong theory = weak output. A strong prompt with a limited theory = surprisingly good output.

Constraints in one place (Saint-Exupéry strip principle)

A prompt is finished not when everything that's needed is in it, but when everything that's duplicated is out of it. Saint-Exupéry's "perfection is achieved when there is nothing left to take away" applies to prompt architecture too. Application: if a platform has a project-context field that's uploaded once and automatically passed along on every call, universal constraints belong there, not repeated per prompt. The same goes for the seven baseline guidelines (em-dash ban, AI-protagonist ban, privacy/names rule, recognition test, verbatim default, document voice, care): always-active in the system layer, not per prompt. A per-prompt instruction carries only what is unique to that moment.

Layer	What belongs here	Example
System / project-context	Universal constraints that always apply	The seven baseline guidelines, platform project-context field, output language
Prompt-context (boilerplate)	Constraints for this type of prompt	Verbatim default, core constraints, output format
Per-prompt instruction	A unique instruction for this moment	Specific question, focus theme, this-session context

Duplicated constraints, strip them, don't stack them. Every extra repetition = risk of drift-between-versions, not of sturdiness.

Frustration as fuel, not something to smooth away

A prompt may not smooth over frustration. One of the most important lessons from the Doesburg engagement.

Not: "Phrase challenges constructively"
Yes: "Frustrations may be there as they were spoken"

Why: When funding fell away in the Doesburg engagement, the highest level of ownership in the entire dataset emerged. The community realized: "we have to take charge ourselves." Had AI been used to "reframe the loss into new opportunities," this vital rebellion would have been smothered at birth.

Rule: Use AI to structure the complexity of frustration. Never use AI to smooth away the discomfort.

Prompt evolution: from v2 to v3

The through-line in how prompts get better, over 16 months of experience.

What changed	v2 (earlier)	v3 (now)
Certainty	One confidence number	Two scores: evidence_strength + interpretation_certainty
Updates	Each analysis stood on its own	Comparison with the previous run (change logs, diffs)
Privacy	Not named	Explicit rules (role descriptions, never names, thresholds)
Noise	No concept of noise	Noise indicators, pattern stability, anomaly detection
Reflection	None	Mandatory self-reflection ("What might I have missed?")

Overarching movement: from single-pass analysis to a learning system. Prompts get better when they have built-in honesty about uncertainty, comparison with earlier runs, and self-reflection.

Serendipity: the unasked question

The most powerful prompt output is often not the answer to the question, but the question nobody asked.

Structured serendipity

Role: You are a curious, intelligent listener who makes the
invisible visible, not by concluding, but by asking
questions.

Instructions:
1. Read all transcripts and earlier summaries
2. Identify tensions, absences, unexpected connections
3. Phrase them as questions, not as conclusions
4. Explicitly label that these are AI observations

Output:
### What AI notices (for inspiration)

**Tensions that stand out:**
[Observation + question for the group]

**Absences that stand out:**
[What wasn't said + question about why that might be]

**Unexpected connections:**
[Connection + question whether this is right]

→ These are observations and questions, not conclusions.
  The group decides what to do with them.

Essential: Serendipity only works when it's phrased as a question, not as a conclusion. "Nobody mentioned informal care. Is this conscious or unconscious?" opens a door. "There's a blind spot around informal care" closes one.

The self-test for prompt design

Before you finalize a prompt, run through these checks. Three layers: the designer test (9 questions), the thoughtfulness and trust layer (the attitude with which you run the tests), the technical self-test (9 checks).

The designer test for prompts

#	Question	What it guards
1	Is AI central, or the human? AI may be an instrument, never the subject.	The prompt instructs AI to mirror, not to decide
2	Does this sound like experience, or like theory?	The prompt asks for concrete language, not abstractions
3	Am I claiming credit that isn't mine?	The prompt labels what comes from participants vs what AI adds
4	Is this English in disguise? Test: would a facilitator use this word?	The prompt uses Dutch where possible (people involved, not stakeholders)
5	Am I prescribing, or inviting? Tensions are not mistakes.	The prompt presents contradictions as moments of choice, not as problems
6	Have I invented something to make it prettier?	The prompt enforces strictly-on-transcript
7	Would this answer the main question? Does this help people be heard?	The prompt ultimately serves the touchstone
8	Could this output touch someone personally instead of making a pattern visible? Not as a ban, as a consideration. Sometimes touching the person is exactly what's needed; more often not.	The prompt asks for focus on patterns in the group, not on magnifying what one voice said
9	Have I thought about who receives this, what it contributes to, and how it fits in the larger process?	The prompt is deliberate about context: who gets to see it, in what position they are, what they need to receive it well

The thoughtfulness and trust layer

Between the designer test and the technical check lies something that isn't fully in either: the attitude with which you run the tests. Going through faster = checkmarks; more thoughtfully = better prompts.

Thoughtfulness, stop and think.

What is the intention here? What am I trying to achieve? AI is lightning-fast with patterns, but a pattern match = a hypothesis, not a conclusion. Two modes are possible: pattern-eagerness (seeing a signal, matching, presenting it as truth) or thoughtful recognition (seeing a signal, checking it against reality, presenting it as a hypothesis with evidence). Only the second one counts.

Three self-questions in thoughtfulness:

What haven't I seen yet? What would I miss if I concluded too fast?
What is the intention here, what does this output contribute to in the larger process?
Have I given myself the room to look deeper, even if faster feels more productive?

Trust, are we handling what people share with care?

Trust = not an abstract precondition. Operationally: can someone look you in the eye after this output has landed and say "you handled what I shared well"? AI must translate that relationship of trust into prompt rules. Concretely: focus on patterns in the group, not on magnifying what one person said. Touching someone personally without reason damages trust, not only between AI and participant, but also between facilitator and participant.

Four self-questions in trust:

Does the output focus on group patterns, or does it magnify what one voice said?
Who receives this, and in what position are they to bring it well?
What would be needed to let this output land well? A bridge of trust, timing, framing?
Are we handling what they shared well? Can they look us in the eye after this lands?

This layer stands above the other tests, not as an extra rule but as a baseline attitude. A prompt that passes the designer-test questions but skips this layer = technically correct work that can damage trust.

The technical self-test (9 checks)

Is the AI value level (Mirror/Synthesis/Serendipity) appropriate for the task?
Do the instructions preserve the participants' language at the mirror level?
Are AI observations explicitly labeled as such?
Is there a recognition criterion in the success criteria?
Does the output format serve the dialogue, not the documentation?
May emotions and frustrations exist as they are?
Are serendipity elements phrased as questions, not as conclusions?
Does the output focus on patterns in the group, not on magnifying individual statements?
Is the trust distribution thought through: through whom does this output arrive, what does that person need to bring it well?

Pre-output checklist: model self-verification embedded in the prompt

The self-test above = for the designer, before the session. The pre-flight (next section) = also for the designer, before going live. This section = what AI itself checks before output: a checklist embedded in the prompt.

The reason: some models (Gemini 2.5 Pro, empirically verified through a v1-to-v5 cycle at an international organization) forget or conflate rules that are scattered loosely through the prompt body. An explicit 5-7 item checklist at the end of the prompt, explicitly framed as "Before submit, run these gates", works better than rules in the body. Opus-class models do this implicitly; for them it's often unnecessary.

Template for a pre-output checklist (in the prompt itself)

Before you submit your output:

1. Quote count within target range? (specify the cap)
2. Zero proper first names in output?
3. Disagreement pattern applied to scope/mandate contestation (where possible)?
4. All headings sentence case (no Title Case)?
5. No mishearings unflagged (transcript artifacts marked or omitted)?
6. No physical-presence metaphors in digital-session output?
7. AI-protagonist language avoided (no "we noticed", "our analysis")?

If a gate fails: stop, revise, then submit.

When to use

For high-stakes participant output via a model that has self-discipline issues (Gemini 2.5 Pro era).
For prompts that combine multiple rules that would otherwise be scattered through the body.
For long outputs (>500 words) where drift is likely.

For Opus-class models often unnecessary. For Gemini-class models: build it in by default.

Don't confuse it with the self-test for the designer

Comparison	Who tests	When
Designer test (9 questions, incl. thoughtfulness + trust)	Human designer	Before finalizing the prompt
Thoughtfulness and trust layer (attitude check)	Human designer	Between the designer test and the technical check
Technical self-test (9 checks)	Human designer	Before finalizing the prompt
Pre-flight checks	Human designer	Before the live session, after finalizing
Pre-output checklist	AI model	During every prompt execution, before submit

For model-specific calibration (which checklist items are needed on which model): consult the documentation of the transcript platform you're using for model-specific caveats.

Pre-flight: the last check before you go live

One minute that prevents your prompt from failing live.

A prompt that looks good ≠ a prompt that works. Pre-flight = a safety net, five checks per session type, 30 seconds. AFTER the prompt is written, BEFORE going live.

Per session type

Live echo (real-time, <30 seconds output)

Run the prompt on the actual model that runs in the session (not the development model)
Output max 2 sentences, test with a messy transcript, not your prettiest example
No consultant language in the output, check the recognition criterion
Echo works even if the transcript only contains 3 minutes (a short group)
Fallback if the echo yields nothing (see the escape prompt below)

Subgroup dialogue (parallel groups, cross-pollination)

Test with input from two groups that say contradictory things
Cross-pollination shows similarities AND differences, not just overlap
Participants' words preserved, no paraphrase, no "themes"
Output fits on one screen (the facilitator must be able to read it aloud live)
Privacy: no names, only role descriptions

Post-session analysis (afterwards, deeper processing)

The prompt works on the full transcript length (check the token limit)
Labeling intact: "What participants said" separated from "What AI notices"
Transparency footer present for output to participants
Frustrations and contradictions remain, not smoothed away
For multiple transcripts: a source reference per claim

Theme clustering (AI as a mirror alongside manual clustering)

AI clustering = a suggestion, not a conclusion, check the phrasing
The output contains the original words per cluster, not just theme labels
Comparable to manual clustering, test: would a facilitator recognize this?
When in doubt: "possibly underexposed" instead of a firm claim
Output visually scannable (bullets/structure, not a wall of text)

How you test

Take an old transcript (any one)
Run the prompt on the model you're going to use in the session
Read the output aloud, does it sound like something the facilitator would say?
Let someone else read the output without context, do they recognize the participants?

The content of the test transcript doesn't matter. You're testing the behavior of the prompt: does it follow the rules? Does it use their words? Does it break on messy input?

The escape prompt: when everything fails

One prompt that always works, on any model, in any situation.

You're live and the prompt stutters, the output is nonsense, or you no longer trust what comes out, press this button. The emergency brake.

Summarize what was said in the last 10 minutes.
Use only the speakers' own words.
No interpretation, no themes, no analysis.
Give a maximum of 5 bullets, each one sentence.
Start each bullet with a literal quote.

Why this always works:

No interpretation = no chance of wrong conclusions
Participants' words = ownership intact
5 bullets = scannable, readable aloud, not overwhelming
Works on GPT 3.5 through Opus, no intelligence required

When to use:

The real prompt gives output that isn't right
You doubt whether the output represents the group well
A technical problem and you need to deliver something FAST
Working with a new model for the first time

Model awareness: test on your target model

A prompt built on Opus that you run on GPT 4.1 is an untested prompt.

See also: Scaffolding by model intelligence (the Thoughtfulness levels section) for how to adjust prompt complexity per model.

The most important rule = simple: test your prompt on the model it's going to run on. Not your favorite model. Not the smartest model. The exact model that is active in the session.

Why this matters

Models differ in how they follow instructions. A prompt that works beautifully on Opus can, on another model:

Ignore instructions about "use their words" and paraphrase anyway
Give longer output than asked (token limits work differently)
Handle conditional logic ("IF... THEN...") less well
Sound more certain than the evidence warrants

Practical rules of thumb

What you check	Why
Does the model follow "their exact words"?	Some models paraphrase by default, you have to enforce it
Does it stick to length limits?	"Max 2 sentences" works on Opus; other models sometimes ignore it
How does it handle contradictions?	Some models resolve contradictions instead of showing them
Does it sound like a consultant or like a mirror?	Larger models are often "more helpful", which is exactly unwanted here
Does the conditional logic work?	"IF consensus THEN name it, IF divided THEN preserve both", test this

When the model changes

When a platform switches to a new model: run active prompts through pre-flight again. One afternoon of work prevents live surprises.

High-stakes output requires model quality over prompt richness

Output to people (participants, leadership) with a practitioner's name on it, where texture > speed: choose model quality over prompt richness. The plateau effects of lesser models on multi-voice differentiation, contestation depth, specific-anchor retention, meta-frame (what was NOT said) = not closable through prompt tightening. Proven through a 5-iteration cycle (v1 to v5) against a subagent baseline at an international organization.

Decision rule:

Output type	Model path
Live plenary, internal coaching, throwaway analyses	Any model that can handle the task; Gemini-class is enough
Coaching mirrors for facilitators (internal)	Gemini-class is enough, texture tolerance is higher
High-stakes participant output (name on it, external distribution)	Opus-class via the subagent route against transcripts directly; leave the platform-Gemini path
Cross-WS parallels openings, Custom Reports to leadership	Opus-class subagent route

A pre-flight test on the target model = mandatory: a prompt that works beautifully on Opus can fail silently on Gemini on exactly the criteria that carry participant output.

For model-specific plateau effects + the workflow-split table: consult the documentation of the transcript platform you're using for model-specific caveats.

Tensions in prompt design

Tensions are not mistakes. They are moments of choice. This applies to prompt design too. Below are recurring tensions, with the choice you make again and again.

Tension 1: Quoting literally vs making it understandable

The pull: "summarize in clear language." The danger: paraphrasing destroys ownership. "You're talking to a wall" carries energy; "communication problems" doesn't.

But: sometimes quoting literally isn't enough. If six people say the same thing in different words, you have to choose: quote all six, or let AI name the pattern? It depends on the level: at the mirror level, quote literally; at the synthesis level, you may name patterns provided the original words are alongside.

Tension 2: Giving structure vs over-constraining

The pull: constrain the prompt so tightly that AI can only mirror. Useful: constraints protect ownership.

But: too many constraints kill serendipity. The most powerful moments ("mouths falling open") came from prompts that gave AI room to make unexpected connections. The echo prompt = 4 lines. The choice: the more output goes to participants, the tighter the constraints. The more it's for the facilitator (preparation, reflection), the more room.

Tension 3: Letting frustration stand vs structuring it

The pull: "phrase challenges constructively." The danger: frustration = fuel for ownership.

But: unstructured frustration can also paralyze. The choice is not "smooth away or let stand" but: structure the complexity without neutralizing the discomfort. Show that three groups phrase the same frustration differently, without concluding that it has to be "solved".

Tension 4: Speed vs depth

The pull: analyze everything thoroughly. The temptation: deeper analysis feels more valuable.

But: the echo button proved the opposite. 10 seconds, one question, more impact than a 10-page report. The choice: optimize live prompts for speed + accuracy; post-session prompts may go deeper.

Tension 5: Transparency vs readability

The pull: give every output full source references, DIRECT/INFERENCE markers, confidence scores. Valuable: it builds trust.

But: a 5-line transparency footer under a 2-sentence echo question = absurd. The choice: the more direct the output to participants, the lighter the transparency. A vision document deserves full source references; a live echo question doesn't.

Rules of thumb for the tensions

Direction	When tighter	When looser
Quoting literally	Output goes to participants	Output is for the facilitator as preparation
Constraints	Mirror level; high ownership sensitivity	Serendipity level; facilitator tool
Transparency	Documents that are shared	Live interventions of 10 seconds
Depth	Post-session analysis	Live-session support

Reference: concrete phrasings

For when you're writing a prompt and want to quickly find a better phrasing:

Instead of...	Consider...	Why
"Summarize in clear language"	"Use their exact words"	Preserve ownership
"Analyze the themes"	"Mirror: make themes visible in their words"	Make the level explicit
"Make a final summary"	"Make output that helps the group keep talking"	Dialogue is the goal
Stakeholders, reframe, track	People involved, reframe, keep track	The Doesburg test: would a facilitator use this word?
Drawing conclusions	Asking questions	Questions open up; conclusions close down

Recognizing dangerous moments

In prompt design

Is the prompt short without constraints? → AI gets too much freedom
Is "base strictly on the transcript" missing? → AI starts filling in from its own knowledge
Is "when in doubt name it explicitly" missing? → AI sounds more certain than it is
Aren't you asking it to use participant language? → Output sounds like a consultant
Is there no transparency instruction? → People don't know what is theirs

In the output

No source references or quotes? → Not verifiable
Does it sound like "consultant-speak"? → Ownership gone
Are contradictions resolved? → Human work skipped
Is transparency about the AI role missing? → Trust fragile
Firm conclusions without evidence? → AI is deciding instead of mirroring

The substitution moment

The most dangerous moment: someone asks "can't the AI just fill in the plan?"

Recognizing it: "Can't the AI just...?", enthusiasm without critical questions, relying on "confident AI" without verification.

Intervention: "You are the soul of this. The fact that you're talking about it makes it likely you'll support it. AI can help structure, but the plan has to come from you."

Outward-output conventions

For any output meant to leave the workspace (participant output, public posts, client reports, AI output that reaches participants through a platform): two writing conventions that work as an anti-AI signature. They belong explicitly in the prompt, not as an implicit hope for model discipline.

Sentence case in all headings

Title Case in headings = an AI signature, recognizable as such by readers. Default: sentence case (only the first word + proper nouns capitalized). Explicitly ban it in the prompt with right/wrong examples.

WRONG (Title Case)	RIGHT (sentence case)
"Radical Ideas for a New Way"	"Radical ideas for a new way"
"Key Insights From This Session"	"Key insights from this session"
"Multi-Stakeholder Alignment Challenges"	"Multi-stakeholder alignment challenges"

Applies to H2, H3, H4. No H1 in body output (H1 is the document title, handled separately).

No physical-presence metaphors for digital sessions

For digital sessions (Teams, Zoom, hybrid): no walked in, stepped into, at the table (for attendance). Replace with joined, came in (metaphorically), was present, was represented. Verbatim quotes with physical metaphors stay verbatim.

The reason: a physical metaphor does violence to reality and is an ownership-precision issue. Ownership through language also applies to the framing layer around quotes, not only to the quotes themselves. Someone who was never at the table doesn't recognize themselves as such.

WRONG (digital session)	RIGHT
"Five colleagues walked in for the workshop."	"Five colleagues joined the workshop."
"A participant stepped into the breakout room."	"A participant came into the breakout room."
"Everyone at the table agreed."	"Everyone present agreed."

Prompt patterns from practice

Pattern 1: Echo intervention (live, 10 seconds)

Role: You are an experienced dialogue coach who asks powerful,
non-judgmental questions.

Context: The last 5-10 minutes of a session.

Constraints:
- Maximum 2 sentences for the question
- No summary or analysis, only the question
- Focus on the last 10-15 minutes

Instructions:
1. Analyze the last minutes of the conversation
2. Identify the underlying tension, choice, or opportunity
3. Formulate one powerful question
4. Choose a tactic: Deepening / Concretizing / Reflecting

Pattern 2: Thematic synthesis (post-session)

Role: You are a strategic editor who turns complex dialogues
into clear, narrative syntheses without losing nuance.

Constraints:
- Base strictly on the transcripts, no fabrications
- Preserve participant language and nuances
- Name differences in perspective explicitly

Instructions:
1. Identify the main themes per conversation
2. Look for patterns and tensions between conversations
3. Cluster related themes with a transparent rationale
4. Write a narrative synthesis per cluster
5. Name open questions and controversies

Pattern 3: Ownership-preserving vision

Core principles:
- Use their own words and terminology
- Preserve the strength of their individual visions
- Make it specific to [context], not generic
- Do NOT use [jargon] unless they say so explicitly

Output must contain:
### How it came about
- Number of voices, date, context

### Their why (in their words)
[3-5 core motivations with literal quotes]

### Still to be aligned
[Contradictions named explicitly]

### About this output
[Transparency footer]

Session flow: how prompts work together

Prompts rarely work in isolation. In a session they form a chain where each prompt builds on the previous one. Understanding this = at least as important as getting the individual prompt right.

The standard workflow

WHY prompt          →  Capture the vision/motivation in their words
    ↓
ECHO prompt         →  Live reflection, the question that helps the group go deeper
    ↓
TIMELINE prompt     →  Extract concrete steps and planning
    ↓
REFINEMENT prompt   →  Integrate feedback, make version 2

Each prompt in the chain has a different goal and a different level (Mirror → Synthesis → Mirror → Synthesis). The flow deliberately alternates between mirroring and connecting.

Staged loading: context between prompts

A crucial lesson: when prompts come one after another, the output of the previous prompt becomes context for the next. Designed that way, but there are ground rules.

The rule: Use earlier AI output as context, NOT as a source. The transcript remains the primary source. Earlier AI output helps the next prompt not to work the same ground, but may not take the place of what people actually said.

In the prompt:

You may be working in a session where there has already been earlier AI output.
Focus on the original transcript. Use earlier AI output only
as context, not as a source. References to "what we see" may
be earlier AI output.

Multi-group variants

Variant	How it works	Core rule
Parallel	Multiple groups at once, synthesis afterwards	Analyze each group separately, then compare
Sequential	Groups one after another, AI output shown but not iteratively processed	Separate analyses per round, synthesis at the end
Carry-through	AI processes between rounds, builds on in a running document	The most recent feedback is leading

In "carry-through", speed is the secret: Group 2 starts 10 minutes after Group 1 and immediately sees the AI-processed result. That speed eliminates the "blank page" problem and demands respect for what the previous group brought in.

Privacy as a design principle

Privacy = not a checkbox at the end. A design decision at the first word of your prompt.

The basic rules

Role descriptions, never names: "a care provider" instead of a proper name. Unless there's explicit permission for naming.
Abstraction while preserving recognition: "a participant who expressed frustration about funding" leaves the pattern intact without exposing the person.
Validation thresholds for cross-project: A pattern is only shareable once it appears in 3+ independent sources. Sensitive topics: 2x that threshold.
Zero proper first names rule: no proper first names in output to participants or outward. A quote with a name? Three options: (a) pick a different verbatim segment that carries the same meaning without a name, OR (b) replace the name with [a colleague] / [an earlier voice], OR (c) strip the name from the quoted text and replace with [participant] / [speaker]. Stakeholder lists by role only ("the IT lead", "the GIS specialist").
Neutral speaker labels when the role is unknown: when voices need to be distinguished but the role isn't known (a multi-voice transcript without role context), use Speaker A, Speaker B, Speaker C, NEVER names. Better than names where role attribution is missing.
Redaction placeholders never in output: strings like <redacted_name>, [NAME], <participant> may NEVER appear in the final version. If they show up: the model didn't apply (a)/(b)/(c). The pre-output checklist must catch this.
Anonymization applies to the whole pipeline, not just output: names may NOT appear in the body, headers, metadata, tags, heading attributions, footers, or any field whatsoever. During the analysis itself, not only in the final output, AI refers to voices only via a role or label. This prevents AI from "remembering" names and accidentally reproducing them later.

In the prompt

Use role descriptions, never names.
Zero proper first names in output. When a verbatim quote contains a name:
- (a) pick a different verbatim segment that carries the same meaning without a name, OR
- (b) replace the name with "[a colleague]" or "[an earlier voice]".
Stakeholder lists by role only ("the IT lead", "the GIS specialist"), never names.
Describe patterns abstractly enough that no individual is recognizable.
For quotes: use without speaker attribution or with role attribution.
Redaction placeholders ("<redacted_name>", "[NAME]") may NEVER appear in the output.

Why a hard rule and not best-effort

Empirically: Gemini 2.5 Pro leaks names when the rule is soft (a v3 test at an international organization had multiple participant names in the output). With a hard rule + (a)/(b)/(c) replacement strategies: zero leakage in v4-v5. The rule must be phrased explicitly as a gate, not implicitly via "be careful with names".

The absolute-anonymity block: when platform anonymization can't be on

Some sessions you can't enforce through platform anonymization (a transcript platform's anonymize feature, auto-anonymize in chat) because other named entities must be preserved: area development where street names, neighborhood names, building names do have to be in the output; sessions where organization names or project names are functional; analyses where specific locations are load-bearing for the pattern.

In those cases: turn off platform-layer anonymization (otherwise everything would go) and enforce name anonymization solely through the prompt layer. This requires a harder gate phrasing than the default, an absolute-anonymity block in the prompt itself.

Template (source: practice with the Dembrane platform, May 2026):

=== ABSOLUTE ANONYMITY RULE ===
UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCE may you, during analysis, refer directly to any
person by name. NO NAMES should appear in any analysis output, not
participant names, not facilitator names, not expert names, not
observer names.

This applies even if names appear in the transcript. During analysis:
- Replace all names with role-based descriptors: "a participant",
  "one speaker", "a resident", "a facilitator", "the expert presenter"
- If you need to distinguish between speakers, use neutral labels:
  "Speaker A", "Speaker B", or descriptive roles, but NEVER names.
- When quoting, strip any names from the quoted text and replace with
  [participant] or [speaker].
- Do NOT include names in metadata, headers, tags, or any other field.
- This rule is non-negotiable and overrides any other instruction. It
  exists to protect participants' privacy and independence, in line
  with the OECD deliberative principles on privacy and GDPR
  requirements.

What this block does extra that the standard zero-name rule doesn't:

Element in the block	What it adds
`UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCE` + `non-negotiable`	Extreme emphasis as a prompt technique, models pick up hard-phrased gates better than soft guidance
`overrides any other instruction`	Override clause, prevents other instructions from unintentionally weakening the rule
`during analysis`	Whole-pipeline coverage, not just output
`Speaker A/B as an option`	Differentiation when the role isn't known
`strip from quoted text`	The third option explicitly alongside (a) another segment and (b) replace
`metadata, headers, tags`	Coverage beyond the body text
OECD + GDPR rationale	An external legal frame, usable for client questions "why so strict?"

When to deploy this block: platform anonymization is off because entity names have to be preserved (streets, buildings, organizations); high-stakes participant output where one name leak is damaging to trust; client projects with explicit privacy anchors (OECD deliberative frame, GDPR compliance requirements); sensitive topics where personal statements would otherwise become traceable.

When this block is NOT needed: platform anonymization is on (like the anonymize feature in Dembrane), it already does the work; output is internal (coaching mirror, scratch analysis), a soft zero-name rule suffices; the session has explicit naming permission with named role attribution.

When privacy deserves extra attention

Cross-project analysis (patterns across multiple groups)
Output that goes to external stakeholders
Area development or sessions where entity names do have to be preserved, platform anonymization isn't possible, the prompt layer has to do the work via the absolute-anonymity block above
Sensitive topics (care, finance, interpersonal tension)
Small groups where anonymization is harder

Iteration: how a prompt evolves

A prompt doesn't appear in one go. A 12-round transformation-plan journey shows how.

Describe what you want → 2. AI proposes an approach → 3. You add context (run sheet, session flow) → 4. AI adjusts → 5. Crucial correction: "The AI doesn't have access to the example plan, so include the writing style IN the prompt" → 6. AI processes the correction → 7. Test with real material → 8. Refine based on output quality.

Four concrete corrections that transform prompts:

"The AI doesn't have access to the example plan, so include the writing style in the prompt"
"Make the prompts universal, the AI can detect the theme itself"
"The prompt should mainly generate questions for the next group"
"The AI has access to full transcripts, not fragments"

Meta-lesson: The value isn't in round 1, but in the accumulation of refinements through feedback. Each correction makes explicit an assumption that transforms the prompt from theoretical to practical.

Tool-agnostic design

All prompts in this bundle work with any LLM. Avoid: platform-specific instructions ("use GPT-4 turbo"), API-specific formatting ("give output as JSON"), tool-specific features ("use internet search"). Use instead: clear role division, explicit instructions in plain language, output formats that work in any platform (markdown, plain text).

Patterns learned: case-study references

A case-study pointer. Universal patterns that this section once covered as a single block were integrated into the main sections above as of the 2026-05-12 PAI-wide consolidation. What remains = a pointer layer: where rules come from, how to trace them.

Pattern	New location in this document	Source iteration
Sentence case + No physical metaphors	"Outward-output conventions" section	pilot at an international organization, v1 to v5
Voice texture + Load-bearing disagreement + Contestation priority	"Multi-voice handling" section	pilot at an international organization, v1 to v5
Hard name rule + redaction placeholder	"Privacy as a design principle" → "Zero proper first names rule"	pilot at an international organization, v3 to v4
Mishearing escalation	"Transcript artifacts handling" section	pilot at an international organization, v3 to v5
Saint-Exupéry strip principle	"The prompt as architecture" → "Constraints in one place" subsection	pilot at an international organization, v1 to v5
Pre-output checklist	"Pre-output checklist: model self-verification embedded in the prompt" section	pilot at an international organization, v3 to v5 (Gemini-specific necessity)
When to leave the platform / high-stakes model choice	"Model awareness" → "High-stakes output requires model quality over prompt richness"	pilot at an international organization, v2 to v5
Trust as a precondition (added later)	"Trust as a precondition" section	bottom-up wiki practice principle #2, cross-source 2026-05-12
Three axes for prompt architecture	"Three axes for prompt architecture" section	2026-05-12

Iteration source + decision rationale per rule: a per-client working doc (e.g. werkdocs/prompt-changes-tracker.md). Subagent playbook for high-stakes participant output: a per-client working doc as a template for other clients.

For platform-specific caveats (quote density numbers, model-specific gates, plateau effects): consult the documentation of the transcript platform you're using.

Who speaks outside the quotes? Or: whose document is this, and who is it for?

Best practices handle the quote voice (verbatim, their words) well. The document voice, who speaks in headings, intro sentences, the connective tissue between quotes, framing statements, = a separate layer. This layer must be actively steered. Without steering, AI-default-English appears as a failure mode: it sounds like a consultant or a generic facilitator. In social-AI work, not an allowed outcome.

Two voice levels

Voice level	What it governs	Desired default in social-AI work
Quote voice	What is between quotation marks or in italics, verbatim from participants	Tightly governed by the verbatim default + anonymization rules
Document voice	Headings, intro sentences, connective tissue, framing statements	Actively steered toward a participant register / facilitator register / project register. Without steering, AI falls back on AI-default-English, a failure mode, not allowed.

When this matters

Output that goes to participants. Output that goes into the world in someone else's name (facilitator, client). Output where recognition matters at the whole-document level, not just at the quote level. Not critical for: internal analysis, scratch work, output purely for yourself.

Two aspects together: extension and its own weight

The document voice = an extension of Ownership through language (principle 4 in Principles): their words count not only in quotes but in every layer of a document that is about them. At the same time it stands on its own as tool-agnostic design: even when ownership-through-language isn't the main question (e.g. didactic explanation, a theoretical frame, value framing), the chosen voice determines whether the document lands or feels imposed.

Not either/or. Both.

Not only a mirror, also facilitator choices

The document voice ≠ only a participant mirror. It's also a chance for facilitators to deliberately choose other formulations that participants don't use themselves, e.g. value framings the group doesn't articulate but the project needs, theoretical framing for leadership reporting, didactic explanation to make patterns accessible to a wider audience. But: the choice is explicit, not an AI default. The facilitator decides which register fits the goal + audience. AI follows that choice.

Document-voice choice	When appropriate
Participant register	Output to participants themselves, mirror level, ownership preservation
Facilitator register	Output to a facilitator team (coaching mirrors), to client leadership, didactic context
Project register	Output within specific project language (e.g. organizational vocabulary), theoretical framing, value framing of the pilot
AI-default-English	Never as a deliberate choice. A failure mode that appears without steering.

How to enforce it in the prompt

Three ways, ideally combined:

Provide an example sentence. "Write in this style: [a concrete example sentence in the facilitator, participant, or project register]." One good example sentence does more than an abstract register instruction.
Make the register instruction explicit. "Write in the voice of a curious colleague, not a consultant." Or: "A specific register: direct questions, short sentences, no abstract synthesis words." Or: "In the group's own voice: as they would tell it to a colleague, not as a report would write it." Or: "Project register: use the project-specific vocabulary for leadership moments."
An anti-pattern list of AI-default phrasings. Common AI-default sentences to avoid:
- "The analysis suggests"
- "Key insights include"
- "Stakeholders mentioned"
- "It is worth noting that"
- "This highlights the importance of"
- "Several participants raised"
- "The conversation revealed"
Naming the anti-patterns explicitly in the prompt = the model actively avoids them.

Extended recognition test

The standard recognition test checks the quote level: "would they say 'yes, that's what we said'". The extension: would they ALSO recognize the headings, intro sentences, connective tissue as their style (in a participant register), or as written by the facilitator who guides them (in a facilitator register), or as fitting in the project frame (in a project register)? Both-layers pass = output ready to go outward.

Anti-pattern in prompt design

A common mistake: specifying only the quote rules, leaving the document voice undefined. The result: output with perfect verbatim quotes in an AI-default-English frame. The reader feels a mismatch without being able to name what's wrong, the quotes are right, but the "voice that carries the page" isn't.

The counter-remedy: for every prompt for outward output, first explicitly answer two title questions:

Whose document is this? (which register belongs to it?)
Who is it for? (what do they recognize as their voice?)

Cross-references

Ownership through language (principle 4 in Principles), the quote voice is governed there; the document voice is its extension at the framing level
Guideline #6 above, steer the document voice actively as an always-active rule
Tool-agnostic design (section above), the document voice has its own weight alongside tool-agnosticism

XML tags as a volume knob: loudness in prompts

Source: Matt Pocock's bug fix on /grill-with-docs (mattpocock/skills, May 2026). The trigger: his skill was "too eager to implement". The diagnosis: the supporting info at the bottom of the skill doc had visual weight and competed with the actual instruction at the top. The fix: wrap the supporting info in <supporting-info> XML tags. The effect: the model gave the instruction at the top clear priority, the supporting info became reference instead of co-instruction.

Matt's phrasing: "Some parts of prompts compete with each other in terms of volume and impact on the output." He calls this loudness in prompts.

The principle

A prompt = not a flat list of rules that the model reads equally. An audio mix: some parts sound louder than others. What is "loud" is determined by:

Length, a 30-line supporting block at the bottom sounds louder than a 3-line instruction at the top
Position, what comes last often sounds louder than what comes first (recency bias in some models, not all)
Detail density, concrete examples with specific names sound louder than abstract principles
Visual weight, code blocks, tables, headers pull attention away from prose

Without volume discipline, the model starts ignoring careful instructions in favor of detail-rich examples. Or it follows the explicit instructions, but places the emphasis wrong because the supporting info gives more dominant signals.

XML tags are the volume knob

Anthropic models (Claude) respond well to an XML-tag hierarchy to steer volume. Not because XML is magic, but because tags force the model to distinguish a section's role. <instructions> is something different from <supporting-info>, even if the content is in the same prompt.

Concrete patterns that work:

<instructions>
Do X. Then stop. Wait for feedback.
</instructions>

<supporting-info>
Background, examples, edge cases, reference material,
not co-instruction.
</supporting-info>

<context>
What the user said earlier, what the project is, which conventions apply.
</context>

<examples>
Two to four examples of the desired output. Not more.
Too many examples = volume overflow, the model imitates instead of understands.
</examples>

<output-format>
The exact structure the output must have.
No prose here, only structure.
</output-format>

Optional for an explicit hierarchy:

<instructions priority="high">
This must happen always. No interpretation.
</instructions>

<supporting-info priority="low">
May be ignored if it clashes with the instructions.
</supporting-info>

The priority attribute is not standardized in models, but it makes the hierarchy explicit for the human reader (and as a hint for the model).

When this matters

XML-tag volume = not always needed. Short prompts (an echo prompt: 4 lines) have no volume problem. Tag overhead there is counterproductive.

Volume discipline becomes critical when:

Condition	Example
Prompt > 500 words	Transcript analyzers, method prompts, multi-step instructions
Supporting info is longer than the instruction	Skill files, multi-section prompts with reference material
The model produces output that doesn't match your intention	"Too eager", "forgets step 2", "does what was in the examples instead of what was in the instruction"
Examples, edge cases, or data definitions are in the same prompt	Analysis prompts with JSON schemas, transcript prompts with attendee lists

A concrete example: before/after

A fictional "too eager" prompt fragment:

Before (everything plain text, the supporting info forces itself on):

Make an ADR for this decision.

Here are 8 examples of ADRs from our archive:
[8 long ADRs, 2000 words total]

Format: number-slug.md in docs/adr/.

Here are 5 templates we've used before:
[5 templates, 800 words total]

Important decision criteria:
- hard to reverse
- surprising without context
- result of real trade-off

The problem: the model reads 2800 words of examples and 50 words of criteria. It builds an ADR that resembles the examples, regardless of whether the current decision meets the criteria. Too eager.

After (XML tags give volume hierarchy):

<instructions priority="high">
First assess: does this decision meet ALL THREE criteria?
- hard to reverse
- surprising without context
- result of real trade-off

If one criterion is missing: no ADR. Answer with "Skip ADR, reason: [criterion]".

If all three are true: write an ADR with a minimum template (title + 1-3 sentences).
</instructions>

<supporting-info>
Format reference: number-slug.md in docs/adr/.

Examples for reference (don't imitate, just for format guidance):
[2-3 ADRs, short]

Earlier templates (only consult when in doubt):
[1 template]
</supporting-info>

The effect: the criterion check gets the volume it deserves. The examples become reference material instead of an imitation goal.

Volume-design rules

Instruction first, short, in <instructions>. What must the model do? One action per line.
Supporting info separately in <supporting-info> or <context>. Long background, examples, edge cases. The model now knows: reference, not co-instruction.
Examples in <examples>, max 4. Too many examples = volume overflow.
Output format in its own tag. Don't mix it with instructions or examples. The model reads it last, knows what the final form is.
When in doubt: fewer examples, a stronger instruction. Examples are more expensive in terms of attention than they seem.

What this is NOT

The seven baseline guidelines (em-dash, AI-protagonist, name attribution, recognition test, verbatim, document voice, care) remain unchanged. XML tags = a prompt-engineering tool to make those guidelines work better in long prompts, not a replacement.

The underlying principle (instruction first, constraints in their own section after) is universal in modern transformer models. Every model benefits from an explicit volume hierarchy. XML tags = one way to make that separation hard; markdown headers with clear labels (## Core instruction versus ## Background, reference only) are another.

Anthropic explicitly recommends an XML-tag hierarchy in their prompt-engineering docs. For Gemini and GPT-4 there's no comparable public training claim, but Matt Pocock's production evidence (after the XML-tag fix in /grill-with-docs there were no more complaints about "too eager to implement") is strong enough to deploy the syntax broadly, not only with Claude.

Rule of thumb: use XML tags as soon as the prompt is long and the supporting info competes with the instruction in volume, regardless of the target model. Then observe: if the output reacts differently on a specific model, fall back on markdown headers with explicit labels, the structural principle stays the same.

Cross-references

The Tool-agnostic design section, the principle (instruction first, constraints separate) is universal. The XML syntax is one implementation alongside markdown headers. When in doubt about the target model: keep a markdown fallback with explicit labels alongside the XML tags.
The Prompt anatomy: forms and variations section, the building-block template can be wrapped in XML tags for Claude target models
The Pre-output checklist section, XML tags also help with self-verification: the model reads <verification-checklist> as a separate instruction
The seven baseline guidelines #1-7 above, still apply, XML tags make them more visible

Log

2026-05-14: XML-tag-volume section added (Matt Pocock bug-fix principle, "loudness in prompts"). Source: an analysis of the mattpocock/skills changelog.
2026-05-14 (later): "What this is NOT" revised. The earlier phrasing ("XML-tag volume is model-specific for Anthropic models") was a game-of-telephone overstatement without a primary source, arising in the chain inbox-analysis → agent prompt → write-up. New phrasing: the principle is universal (instruction first, constraints separate), the XML syntax is one implementation with an Anthropic recommendation AND Matt's production evidence (n=1: no more complaints after the fix). Markdown headers remain a valid fallback. Correction during sparring around transcript-platform prompts.

Bulletproof points in multi-step analysis flows

When a prompt flow runs through multiple steps across a whole session or day (transcript discovery → quality check → clustering → analyses → synthesis → output), reality is always messier than the blueprint. Phones weren't turned on, participants resumed instead of starting, transcripts are missing, two conversations blend. A rigid prompt chain collapses at the first discrepancy. A bulletproof chain keeps running and uses what's there.

The four bulletproof points

#	Principle	What it solves
A	Read-what-exists	Hardcoded file lists are suggestions, not requirements. `ls folder/` is ground truth. A missing file = note it + move on, don't fail.
B	Archive pre-check	In a multi-step chain: earlier steps may already have run on an earlier run. Check whether the output of the previous step exists before you spawn again.
C	Completeness verify	When the number of work moments/groups/inputs is known for a sanity check: match what's found against what's expected. A mismatch = a warning to the user, not silently moving on. A missed working group is a bigger problem than a slow process.
D	Confidence degradation	When confidence is low in clustering, quality check, or inference: mark it + ask, don't fill in plausibly. Empty blocks > invented blocks.

How it lands in each step

Discovery step: always start with ls + read-what's-there, not with "here are N expected files, load them". Discovery = observation, not assumption.

Clustering step: if the clusters found don't match the expected number of work moments → STOP and ask. Offering hypotheses helps: "I see M clusters but expect N, possible causes: (a) not all phones recorded, (b) two groups were wrongly merged on thematic overlap, (c) one recording was seen as noise. What's your assessment?"

Quality-check step: only run it when there's more than one transcript per cluster. With one file: automatically the primary. No wasted compute.

Analysis step: the input file list = a suggestion. Read what's there. Mention in the output recap if files were missing: "Processed based on N of M expected transcripts, [X, Y] were missing."

Synthesis step: if upstream steps were unauthorized or had caveats, propagate them through to the synthesis output. No hidden quality reduction.

What this prevents

A Wall of Wonder prompt that crashes because an imagining transcript is missing
A working-group recap that silently misses a whole working group because two groups looked alike
A quality check that runs again while the archive is already ready
A synthesis document that pretends all input was complete

Auto-kickoff principle

A bulletproof flow must start from a natural trigger ("do Wall of Wonder now") without hand-holding:

Step 0 (pre-flow check): look at what's on disk. Upstream work already done? (archive/ exists → the quality check already ran). Match against the expected number.
Skip what's already done. Reuse primaries if they exist.
Spawn only what's still needed. Quality-check subagents for clusters with 2+ files. Not for singletons.
Verify completeness. Does the picture match what we expect to have heard? If not: report + ask.
Run the analysis step on validated input.
Hand off with caveats. Mention in the output what was missing or uncertain.

Log

2026-05-19: Bulletproof-points section added after a practice incident during a two-day imagining session: one working group didn't record, another resumed an existing conversation, the prompt was set up too rigidly around a pre-defined file list. Sparring source: "we have to build in all kinds of bulletproof points so the flow keeps running and uses what's there. And verify that you aren't missing any transcripts, that you aren't actually missing a conversation."

Multi-prompt validation for a wiki foundation

Wiki entries that serve as a foundation for coaching, session design, and director deliverables require more than one prompt pass. What one prompt finds may be a signal of the material or an artifact of the phrasing, indistinguishable without comparison.

We call this defensible facilitator material: not scientific proof, but a well-founded claim with a source, multi-prompt validated through overlap, "roughly right + sample-checkable", holdable to a degree under pushback ("yes, that was in WS3 breakout-2 at this spot with these three prompts").

Show-both-sides as a prompting default

A best practice for pattern-extraction prompts: ask explicitly for both what works and what chafes. Not only "where are the tensions?" but "where are the tensions AND where did something work well?". A balance target in the output of 40-60% per side. It prevents the prompt phrasing itself from pulling toward problem naming.

Don't force it. When a facilitator explicitly says "I only want the tensions", give only tensions. The best practice is knowledge for default choices, not a rule that automatically counter-steers the prompt when the user asks for something else.

3-pass setup for wiki-foundation work

On top of the show-both-sides default: for wiki-foundation work, one pass is not enough. A 3-pass is mandatory:

Pass	Type	What shifts
1	Mixed baseline	Faithful to the lens definition. Object + sub-questions + signal types + scaffold from the lens file. No adjustments to vocabulary.
2	Mixed vocab-shift	Jargon replaced by concrete behavior or physical-spatial language. "Walking-away" instead of "topic-flight". "Ideas that landed but no one picked up" instead of "idea-fading". Looks for the same phenomena with other words, catches unique cases.
3	Positive-only-exclusive	Filter: only positive/affirmative moments. "Find ONLY moments where the group did something well, co-construction, real dialogue, generative tension." Catches quiet positives that the mixed passes miss.

Constraint per variant: all three look for the same fundamental thing (the lens). The differences are in phrasing, not in scope. Otherwise you're not testing robustness but comparing different lenses.

Comparison rule (critical)

Overlap = verbatim overlap OR moment overlap, NOT label overlap.

Two outputs overlap only if they cite the same quote or mark the same moment (same speaker, same sequence position). Two variants that label the same quote differently = overlap. The same label on different quotes = NO overlap.

Why: variants explicitly use different vocabulary. Label overlap would suggest false-positive robustness.

Evidence from Test 1: the L1 comparison agent had to downgrade 5 initial "robust 4/4" candidates under strict application of this rule.

4-layer tag scheme

For wiki entries from the 3-pass:

Tag	When
CROSS-FRAME VALIDATED	In the mixed passes AND the positive-only pass. The strongest claim.
PAIRED-VALIDATED	In 2 mixed passes, not in positive-only.
EXCLUSIVE-ONLY	Only in the positive-only pass. Valid but single-pass.
SINGLE-FRAME CATCH	One variant only. An artifact candidate OR a deep signal, contextual.

Naming convention for findings with multiple readings

When two or more variants pick up the same quote but read it differently:

Naming	When	What to do with it
Complementary readings	Both readings hold alongside each other, richer together	Keep both in the wiki entry, no synthesis pressure
Competing readings	The readings exclude each other	Keep both, an interview candidate for human consideration
Multiple readings	Hastily not determinable which of the above	Keep both, classify later

Dual readings are a FEATURE, not a bug. Evidence that reality is locally ambiguous. No synthesis pressure to reconcile them. For 1-on-1 prep, richer than a synthesized single reading.

Why positive-only stays necessary

Mixed prompts (passes 1+2) catch clearly articulated positive moments reliably. Quiet positives not. Three forms of the pattern "quiet positives in dense context": see Principles § Positive-first as an anti-default-pull for explanation and examples. Pass 3 (positive-only) is what catches these quiet positives.

Lens level: micro vs macro prompt sensitivity

Empirically from Test 1 (L1+L2 on WS3):

Micro-level lenses (language mechanisms, word choices, grammatical moves) are HIGHLY prompt-sensitive. Counts per variant spread 19-40. The marker is in one word, different vocabulary → misses it.
Macro-level lenses (group patterns, dialogue vs broadcast) are LESS prompt-sensitive. Counts 9-20. The pattern has multiple signals the agent can hang it on.

Implication: micro lenses may deserve extra validation. Macro lenses may get by with less. To be confirmed in further rollout.

When 3-pass is mandatory vs 1-pass acceptable

Mandatory (3-pass)	Optional (1-pass acceptable)
New SM entries in lens pages	Lens-definition revisions where the author gate does the comparison
Lens rollout on a new source (WS transcript, meeting)	Verbatim-only work (L5), verbatim is verbatim, low prompt sensitivity
Syntheses for 1-on-1 / director deliverables	Reflections / project-resource notes not used as evidence
Revalidation of single-prompt-origin entries	Quick scans / non-evidence work

Validation ≠ attribution discipline

Two different disciplines that are easily confused:

Dimension	What it fixes	Example
Attribution discipline	WHO said what	The radical rebuild of May 19 fixed name attributions
Multi-prompt validation	HOW MANY prompts found the same signal	Test 1 validates robustness

Entries that have only received attribution discipline are still single-prompt origin. They get a Robustness tag "single-prompt origin, candidate for revalidation". Both disciplines are needed, not interchangeable.

Scale economics

Per lens-source combo, 3-pass setup:
  3 parallel agents + 1 comparison + 1 wiki integration = 5 runs
  Wall-clock parallel:  ~5-7 min
  Tokens (Opus):        ~650K
  Cost per combo:       ~$10

Whole wiki "defensible facilitator material":
  ~17 combos × 5 runs = ~85 runs
  Wall-clock: ~5-6 hours over 3-4 sessions
  Total:      ~$165

Per facilitator claim, backable with "three different prompts found this": ~$2.

Log

2026-05-20: Method + naming convention recorded after Test 1 on WS3 for L1 + L2. Key findings: (1) micro-level lenses are more prompt-sensitive than macro, (2) the positive-only variant found an asymmetric blind spot of the neutral variants (no valence filter), (3) the strict overlap rule downgraded 5 false-positive "robust" candidates.
2026-05-20 (later, after path-C-revised): 3-pass as a mandatory default. 4-layer tag scheme. The pattern "quiet positives in dense context" with three forms recorded. Show-both-sides default added with a don't-force clause. The pending-observation cross-reference to Principles removed, Positive-first is now fully recorded under ### Positive-first as an anti-default-pull.

Sources

Source	What it contains
Social AI Principles (Principles)	The canonical bundle of 15 principles, the reference for prompt translation

Compiled from years of facilitation practice and internal source documents, March 2026

Ownership

Living document, continuously evolving. First version 2025-08-26. Published publicly 2026-05-20. Last update 2026-05-10.

Part of Thoughtful Social AI. License: CC-BY-SA 4.0. View raw markdown for copy-paste into your AI.

What this document mentions. As you read, you'll come across a few specific people and projects that are central to the author's practice. The principles and techniques are generally applicable; these concrete references serve as context, not as a requirement.

Floor de Ruiter: facilitator and thinker on bottom-up change (bottom-upchange.nl)

the Doesburg engagement: a bottom-up community engagement around a caring community; these ownership principles were formalized there (autumn 2025)

Formalized in the Doesburg engagement (a bottom-up community engagement around a caring community), autumn 2025.

Core philosophy

Ownership comes from within. It is not something we assign, but something we recognize and respect in the words and actions of participants.

Design principle: ownership is local or it isn't

Ownership only grows in concrete, close-by situations where people can experience it, not in abstract guiding frameworks. Mastery experiences (Bandura) beat pep talks and vision decks. Locus of control shifts through doing, not through understanding.

What this means for session design and project architecture:

Scale down to where it's tangible. Better three neighbors over one street-level issue than thirty over "the caring neighborhood".
Places that are already in motion > new meeting cycles. A conversation at the coffee machine or in the church hall stands a better chance of felt ownership than a steering group every three weeks.
Wait until the body can come along. Cognitive understanding without felt safety is mastery that doesn't land. Pace is not a soft precondition, it is the condition for the principles to work at all.
The facilitator is a matchmaker, not a director. We connect people who need each other in a local context, and step back once the conversation starts.
Don't tell, let them experience. Floor de Ruiter: "You shouldn't bother people with your principles." Behavior changes first, the brain follows. Values change based on experiences, not based on explanation (Marquet, Turn The Ship Around).

This is also the mechanism beneath bottom-up work: self-efficacy is local or it isn't, and invitation is the only form that doesn't produce pseudo-participation. What makes an individual grow is what makes a group grow, the same stuff.

Origin Story: AI-Assisted Heuristic Development

How These Principles Were Formalized (from a conversation about the origins of the work in the Doesburg engagement, October 2025):

"I was working on this system five, six weeks ago on trying to get sort of this little agent factory going on analyzing meetings, meeting transcripts to look at: Are the feelings of ownership rising? [...] And I don't know, Claude, or I think it was Claude, it came back to me with like this whole markdown file of ownership heuristics. And I looked at it and I'm like, this makes a lot of sense. And it looked at language like... High ownership is like, yes, I will do that. Or, yeah, I'll take a look at this. I'll do this now. And then there's all these in-between stuff."

The Process:

Tacit Expertise: Years of facilitation work developed implicit ability to recognize ownership signals
AI Formalization Request: Asked Claude to analyze transcripts for ownership patterns
AI Generation: Claude produced structured markdown of ownership heuristics based on language patterns
Human Validation: The author verified heuristics against lived facilitation experience ("this makes a lot of sense")
Integration: Formalized heuristics became explicit scoring methodology

Key Insight: Sometimes AI can help articulate tacit expertise that humans struggle to formalize explicitly. The AI didn't create new knowledge, it structured and made explicit what the author already knew implicitly from practice.

Validation Methodology:

Test against real transcripts: Do the heuristics match actual ownership you observe?
Compare with facilitation intuition: Does the AI score align with your gut feeling?
Iterate with feedback: Refine heuristics based on cases where AI and human judgment diverge
Trust but verify: AI formalization is useful but requires human expertise validation

This is NOT: AI replacing human judgment about ownership This IS: AI helping humans articulate and systematize their existing expertise

Meta-Learning: This collaboration model (AI formalizes, human validates) may be valuable for other tacit expertise domains: facilitation skills, pattern recognition, contextual judgment.

Language principles

1. Preserving the authentic voice

Use their own words in summaries and analyses
Quote verbatim where possible to ground ownership
Avoid paraphrasing when the original wording is stronger
Respect their framing of problems and solutions

2. Respecting context

Consent-based naming:
- consent=true → use real names for ownership
- consent=false → use pseudonyms, but preserve their language
Cultural context: Respect for local terminology
Professional context: Preserve professional jargon when it strengthens their ownership

Recognizing ownership

What DOES Show Ownership

0.7-1.0: High Ownership

"I'm going to do something about that": direct intention to act
"We need to approach this differently": collective ownership
"I'll try that next week": concrete planning
"I've already reached out to...": already active

Characteristics:

Uses "I", "we" for solutions
Concrete action plans
Takes responsibility for outcomes
Sees connections and possibilities

What Shows LIMITED Ownership

0.4-0.6: Mixed Ownership

"It should but...": external dependency
"If there were budget then...": conditional action
"It's actually not my job, but...": ownership despite the system
"I do try, but the system...": effort despite obstacles

Characteristics:

Frustration with the system, but still looking for solutions
Conditional willingness to act
Acknowledges influence, but feels limited
Tries despite obstacles

What Shows LOW Ownership

0.0-0.3: Victim Position

"There's nothing I can do about that": powerlessness
"The system decides...": external control
"They have to solve that": responsibility elsewhere
"It is what it is": resignation

Characteristics:

Uses "they", "the system", "the organization" for solutions
Feels no influence over outcomes
Passive stance toward problems
External locus of control

Scoring methodology

1. Quote-Based Evidence

For every ownership score:

Required:

At least 2 supporting quotes
Exact timestamp or inference:true
Original wording preserved

Template:

## Ownership (ownership pulse)
**Score:** 0.X

**Why:** [rationale in their words]

**Supporting signals:**
> "Quote 1 that shows ownership" ([NAME], timestamp)
> "Quote 2 that demonstrates agency/action" ([NAME], timestamp)

**Counter-signals:**
> "Quote that shows limitation/frustration" ([NAME], timestamp)
> [Observation about external dependencies]

**Balance:** [Why this score despite counter-signals]

2. Recording Counter-Evidence

Always record:

Quotes that suggest lower ownership
System constraints that limit agency
External dependencies
Moments of resignation or powerlessness

Why: A complete picture of the situation, not just positive signals

3. Evolution Over Time

Track ownership evolution through:

Longitudinal quotes: Compare statements over time
Action follow-up: What did they do after the previous conversation?
Network effects: How does collaboration influence ownership?
System changes: Impact of external changes

In Practice: Examples

Good: Authentic Ownership Recognition

**Anna's Ownership (0.8):**
"I'm going to do something about that, because this can't go on like this," shows her direct
intention to act despite bureaucratic obstacles. She consistently uses
"I'm going to" and "I'll arrange," which demonstrates strong personal ownership.

Supporting: "I've already reached out to the municipality" (00:23:15)
Counter-signal: "But the system just won't cooperate" (00:25:30)

Wrong: External Interpretation

❌ "Anna shows high ownership through her proactive attitude"
✅ "Anna's statements 'I'm going to do something about that' show direct ownership"

Good: Nuanced Scoring

**Barbara's Ownership (0.6):**
Mixed pattern: strong intention to care but feels limited by the system.
"I really want to help but the rules..." shows ownership despite
obstacles, not alongside them. Her "I do try" attitude gives a 0.6
instead of a lower score.

Ownership in Experiments

Experiment Design Principles

Within their sphere of influence: What can THEY influence?
Their own words: Experiment title in their terminology
Their motivation: Why would THEY want to try this?
Their success metrics: How do THEY define success?

Example:

{
  "hypothesis": "Anna's 'neighborhood care café' idea reduces loneliness",
  "small_bet": "Anna starts a pilot as she proposes: a weekly coffee hour",
  "owner": "Anna (community nurse)",
  "success_metric": "Anna's own definition: 'When people start recognizing each other'"
}

Privacy & Ownership

When Consent=True

Use the real name for ownership attribution
Preserve their specificity: "Anna's approach" vs "The community nurse's approach"
Direct quotes: Verbatim citations as ownership evidence

When Consent=False

Use a pseudonym: But preserve their language fully
Role-specificity: "(community nurse)" for context
Their own words: Preserve their wording despite the pseudonym

Validation & Feedback

For Participants

Recognition test: "Do you recognize yourself in this description of your ownership?"

Can they find their own words back?
Does the ownership score feel accurate?
Are they missing important aspects?

For the Team

Consistency check:

Similar situations → similar scores?
Own biases → are they influencing interpretation?
System attributions → at the expense of personal agency?

"It's not about what we think they can do, but about what they say they're going to do."

Changelog

2025-08-26: first version formalized from the Doesburg engagement.
2026-05-10: design principle "ownership is local or it isn't" added, linking to bottom-up work (Bandura, Marquet, Floor de Ruiter).
2026-05-20: publicly shareable version in the Thoughtful Social AI bundle.

Bottom-up process

Source. A summary of the bottom-up body of thought that Floor de Ruiter develops and shares. See bottom-upchange.nl for the full work and method.

Living document, continuously evolving. First version autumn 2025 (possibly earlier). Publicly published 2026-05-20.

Part of Thoughtful Social AI. License: CC-BY-SA 4.0. View raw markdown for copy-paste into your AI.

What this document names. As you read, you'll come across one central reference that is central to the author's own practice. The principles are broadly applicable; this concrete reference serves as context, not as a requirement.

Floor de Ruiter: author of the bottom-up work that this summary describes (bottom-upchange.nl)

Explanation of the bottom-up process (according to the book):

The core idea of bottom-up system transformation as described in the book is a radical break with traditional, top-down change processes. Instead of plans that are conceived at the top and then 'rolled out' (often resulting in resistance and human harm), this process turns things around:

The wisdom is in the system itself: The starting point is that the people closest to the work, the customer, or the problem (the 'shop floor', the residents, the farmers, the members) often know best what's going on, where the bottlenecks are, and what possible solutions might be. In top-down systems, this collective wisdom often goes untapped (Chapters 2, 3, 5).
Ownership is crucial: Change is only truly supported and successfully implemented when those involved are themselves owners of both the problem and the solution. People support what they (co-)create themselves (Chapters 4, 5, 10). Top-down plans rarely create real ownership.
The process is organic, not planned: You don't know in advance exactly where you'll end up. The process unfolds based on the dialogues, the energy, and the insights that arise along the way. It's more a dance than a marching route (Chapters 4, 9, 10). Clinging to a rigid plan kills creativity and adaptability.
Energy (often resistance) is the engine: Frustration, anger, or resistance to the current situation isn't something to be suppressed; it's the very fuel that sets the change process in motion and keeps it going (Chapters 4, 9, 10). It's essential to acknowledge this energy and use it constructively.
Dialogue is the instrument: Real, open, and often large-scale dialogues are needed to surface the collective wisdom, to create ownership, and to connect people with different perspectives and interests (Chapters 1, 5, 7, 11). This goes beyond informing or consultation; it's creating together from scratch.
Leadership shifts: Leadership is no longer top-down steering, but facilitating, making space, supporting, connecting, and guarding the process ('system leadership', 'leading from behind') (Chapters 9, 10, 11).
Preparation is essential: Organic though it is, you can't just begin anywhere. Creating 'fertile ground' (by understanding the system, involving key figures, building trust) is crucial before you go deep (Chapters 9, 10).

The "step-by-step plan" (with the emphasis on flexibility):

The book emphasizes that a rigid step-by-step plan runs counter to the organic nature of the process. What follows is therefore more a framework of phases and points of attention that often recur, than a linear checklist. The order can vary, steps can run in parallel, and some may not be needed in every situation.

We split it into two main phases, based on Chapter 10: 1. Preparation (creating fertile ground) and 2. Bottom-up in action (the transformation process).

Step-by-step for beginners:

(Focus on the basic principles, safety, and getting the movement started)

Phase 1: Preparation, laying the foundation

Understand the necessity & your role: Why is change needed? What is your personal motivation? Be aware of your own biases and assumptions (self-evaluation light).
Explore the field broadly: Who are the key people involved? What are the most commonly heard frustrations or wishes? Talk informally with a few people to get a first feel (exploring the landscape light).
Look for allies: Who else feels the urgency? Who would like to think along or join in? Look for a few 'allies' (finding change agents light). These can be colleagues, neighbors, etc.
Create a safe starting place: Come up with a first, low-threshold way to bring people together where they feel safe to talk (e.g. a coffee moment, a kitchen-table conversation).
Formulate an open question: Come up with a starting question that invites sharing, without filling in the solution already (e.g. "What are we really running into right now?", "How would we want things to work here?").

Phase 2: Action, starting and feeding the dialogue

Start the dialogue (small): Organize the first gathering. Focus on listening! Let people tell their story, acknowledge the frustrations (following the energy). Use the open question.
Observe and listen deeply: What is being said (and not said)? Where is the energy? Who takes the floor? Try to observe without judgment.
Keep ownership low: Encourage the group to come up with ideas or next steps themselves. Ask: "What could we do about this?" or "What's a small step we can take now?".
Make it visible (simple): Share what was discussed in a simple way (e.g. a short summary by email, a photo of a flip chart). Make sure people recognize themselves.
Facilitate the next step (together): Help the group organize any follow-up session or action, but let them take the lead where possible. Keep following the energy.
Be patient and flexible: Don't expect miracles after one conversation. The process takes time and rarely runs in a straight line. Dare to deviate from your plan when the situation calls for it.
Seek help/learn: When it gets more complex, don't hesitate to ask more experienced facilitators for help, or to learn from the examples in the book.

Step-by-step for advanced process facilitators:

(Focus on systemic interventions, depth, scalability, and navigating complexity)

Phase 1: Preparation, systemic analysis and mobilization

In-depth system analysis (exploring the landscape): Map out value patterns (e.g. via Spiral Dynamics/ValueFraming), power structures, history, frozen conflicts, and the broader context (stakeholders, trends). Identify potential system barriers.
Identify and connect change agents: Actively look for formal and informal leaders, frontrunners, and connectors at different levels in the system. Bring them together (e.g. in a first steering team/platform).
Facilitate self-evaluation (key players & self): Guide key figures (and yourself!) in examining their own judgments, cynicism, fears, and the impact of those on the system (using e.g. Theory U, Wilber's quadrants). Work on 'holding space' for yourself and others.
Strengthen team dynamics & trust: Analyze and work on the health of existing (management) teams or the newly formed steering team (e.g. via Lencioni's model). Actively build psychological safety.
Increase empathy & understanding: Facilitate processes that increase understanding between different (sub)groups or perspectives (e.g. via dialogue sessions between groups, perspective-switching exercises). Make underlying value conflicts discussable.
Create space (stress reduction): Identify and address (where possible) sources of unnecessary stress or blockages in the system, to make literal and figurative space for change.

Phase 2: Action, orchestrating the transformation process

Design and launch large-scale dialogue: Develop a strategy for broad, open participation (e.g. via series of dialogue sessions, G1000-style events, online platforms). Provide methods that facilitate depth (empathic/generative level).
Follow and channel the energy/resistance: See resistance as data and energy. Facilitate processes where this energy is acknowledged and converted into creative solutions. Keep ownership close to the source of the energy.
Facilitate the organic process: Continuously monitor the dynamics. Dare to adjust the process based on what presents itself, not based on the original plan. Work with iterations and prototypes. Manage the paradox of structure and flow.
Build and support change platforms: Formalize or support steering teams/platforms that can coordinate the process, support initiatives, and navigate conflicts (see Chapter 10).
Develop adaptive communication: Use communication strategically: from listening and mirroring (feedback loops) to sharing stories and celebrating (small) successes. Adapt channels and forms to the audience and the phase of the process.
Cultivate system leadership: Encourage and support leadership at all levels. Help the formal leadership take on a facilitating role. Model 'leading from behind' yourself, be aware of power dynamics, and facilitate the synchronization between top-down and bottom-up.
Anchor the new way of working: Look for ways to embed the lessons learned and the new (more adaptive) way of collaborating and deciding into the structure, culture, and processes of the system.

Important note: Both plans are only a guide. The art lies in sensing the situation, applying the principles flexibly, and continuously learning and adapting, exactly as the book argues. It takes courage, perseverance, and trust in the people and the process.

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